Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost
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Chenonceau:
I did! But dunno how far to...
Heh! Back read lor... though Mod has asked that people remove the info. I reacted because I got it in my PM. Full name. Picture. School. The works.buds:
Who exactly is doing this shaming n naming?
If it was here in this forum, I must've missed it. :pokeeye:
Cos the current furor seems to swell from this revelation...
I just gave birth lei.. not enough time to back
read so many threads in great detail. Just the
ones that always pop up on recents I peep.
Waitta minute!
Think I got PM.
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Chenonceau:
Don't think he meant it that way, hun.. :snuggles:buds:
Chenonceau, what I was trying to agree upon is that not all 17yr olds are or can be as mature as yours. Parenting is one part of it.. (the moulding) but the rest is her. :love:
And what I am trying to say is that IF she turned out badly, I would blame myself... not her... because I am older, supposed to be wiser... and it was my responsibility to make her good.
I don't at all appreciate that strparent tried to make me sound like I was trying to take all the credit for her being who she is.
He's a fan of yours you know.. (of your sharings).
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for those who have her details pls don't pm (espeically me)... don't get yourself into trouble... and i don't want to be invited for coffee session... :siam:
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buds:
:imsorry: It's all good.
Don't think he meant it that way, hun.. :snuggles:
He's a fan of yours you know.. (of your sharings). -
BeContented:
Agree. Agree. Agree.Lilac66:
[quote=\"Way2GO\"]
I seriously doubt dat she is taken advantage of when she willingly n openly advertise her services in public,
n she was reportedly in direct contact with some men on some transactions.
Rehabitation, second chance n given space to rebuild her life – I will second dat anytime.
I find it hard to swallow dat there is no accountability for her role – where is d justice in d law?
Wat is d msg being conveyed to all those underage ‘aspirants’ dat I saw in today’s New Paper headline wanting to be social escorts? ‘It’s OK if other ppl’s lives r messed up but we will make our money n get away scot-free?'
Agree.. we are not talking about a young 12 yr old being raped. That of course will earn loads of sympathy. We're talking about a very enterprising young woman here who knows the shortest way to easy money and that Prada dag. Some of her encounters she had with the men were not even through the pimp. It's private transactions. So what do you think she's made off? Innocent gullible material? I seriously doubt so.
However, I do feel that we should give her a second chance with rehabilitation if she sees the need to change. But on no account should she get away without any responsibilty on her part. She's 17 , not 12. We would expect a certain level of maturity at least knowing what is right and wrong.
Even a pri school kid if caught flouting rules in school will be disciplined before being given a 2nd chance.
This whole saga just makes me think I should spend more time communicating moral values to my child whether it's a DS or DD.
I am gonna be spending some time with my DS & DD on this tonight......[/quote]How to talk to P6 ds about this type of thing? It is an appropriate age to discuss these type of commercial transactions yet? For those kids in Pei Chun, did the school talk to them about this whole saga since their ex-principal is featured on the newspaper headlines? If so, how did they do it? -
ksme:
u mean yr kid doesn't know what is a prost?
How to talk to P6 ds about this type of thing? It is an appropriate age to discuss these type of commercial transactions yet? For those kids in Pei Chun, did the school talk to them about this whole saga since their ex-principal is featured on the newspaper headlines? If so, how did they do it? -
30 years ago, France was like Singapore today. I lived there then for a bit. A friend of mine was 14. Was having sex with her 21 year old boyfriend. I was 15... very undeveloped (had an airport runway on my chest - thank God) ... I had to sit through their dates eating my croissant, drinking my chocolate, whilst the 2 french-kissed for long minutes. I took to timing them - 2.5 minutes was their longest.
When I had my kids, I started sex education at 2.5 years because I read about perverts in France as often as we read about them in today's papers in Singapore. I taught them the parts of the body and I showed them where they should not allow ANYONE to touch them. I taught them vocabulary and phrases to say \"You pervert!!\" and \"Stop that!!\", and then I practised role play with them so they had fun shouting \"You pervert!!\" The training worked so well that once when DH was playing with DD and accidentally pulled at her shorts, she turned around and whacked him on the head and said \"You pervert!!\". DH got a shock.
And I watched them carefully. Cannot go public toilet alone. Travel must use child leash/harness.
When they were in mid Primary, we watched movies together and I explain all the sex jokes blah blah blah... and where I can, I send in my own messages of what is right and wrong. I answer all their questions. One memorable question from DD was asked when she was 9 - Why do people have to marry to have babies? What's wrong with having babies before you get married?
Last year, I made Little Boy do up a Powerpoint presentation on sexually transmitted diseases - symptoms and pathogens. I told him I wanted many pictures so that he would get a sense of the monstrosities that can enter our bodies through sex. Check this out - http://akorra.com/2011/11/01/top-10-dangerous-sexually-transmitted-diseases-stds/
In lower secondary, I showed DD an article about a JC student who contracted AIDS from her JC boyfriend, who was himself a good student and who looked very decent... and they were in a stable relationship. We toured an AIDS exhibition held in the foyer of a local university and she learnt that ANYONE can get AIDS.
The wave of sexuality creeps into our children's lives. I tackle it head on. I talk about sex openly with them. I tease them about sex and BGR. I keep the comms lines open. When DD started dating her boyfriend, I said it plainly to their faces \"I don't think you 2 should be having sex.\" I can't enforce it but I say it anyway. DD was NEVER allowed sleepovers... not even school camps. Same for DS.
After 18, I don't care. I can't protect them forever but up till 18, I can educate them. -
KSP:
for those who have her details pls don't pm (espeically me)... don't get yourself into trouble... and i don't want to be invited for coffee session... :siam:
think the name is everywhere now...people r just linking each other up to some international news media...is that an offence too? -
Way2GO:
The law itself may likely impose an affordable punishment , its the media, and the music that they face with the society, friends and family that is going to shatter them.D men don't deserve it? It's dat a typo?
But it is a very heavy price to pay for some thrills with an underaged pros.
I think dis high profile case has sent d msg to d men out there,
n made more aware of dis 'little known' law.
However, it is not complete without sending d right msg to SYTs aspring to enter d trade. -
There’s no such thing as affordable punishment. The law is there to punish convicted offenders.
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