In-law problems?

[macaron12]

how do you celebrate mother’s day with your mum & your MIL?

[raytan30]

I signed up for this forum because i typed "unhappy with in laws" and found this.


hai i am staying with my in laws and my wife will not grow up as long as we stay with them. my in laws are nice and i spend quite a bit of money on them on holidays, etc.

the problem started with my bro in law always say no money and never even pay for nothing. everytime we go out for dinner i pay for in laws and bil’s family. until now i quite du-l*n.

so now i sibeh sian.

[LOLMum]

you have to tell your wife…you cant be footing the bills all the time.


cut down the frequency of having meals outside especially with bil.

if no choice got to go, try those zhi char stalls (but also not cheap). when ordering food, if bil trys to order expensive dishes or coke for his family etc, say frankly no money, got to split the bills. bil says no money, then you say just have water. most important, you be the one to order the food not the freeloaders.

you wife (as u said still behave like a xiao jie) will definitely be unhappy.
but it is your hard earned money right?

[Pris.011283tang]

Yeah u got to make a stand even if shes not happy u got to make it clear ur pockets is not unlimited one day sure got 1 big lobang

[LOLMum]

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

[Pris.011283tang]

LOLMum:

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

My Dh used Lv haha thats why now i also will hold back when phones comes for weird emergency from my side learn how to gauge what is really emergency

[LOLMum]

Pris.tang:

LOLMum:

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

My Dh used Lv haha thats why now i also will hold back when phones comes for weird emergency from my side learn how to gauge what is really emergency

He uses lv, you buy Chanel?

[auntieM]

..really cannot tahan freeloaders..read also :mad:

My leechy leech BIL also due back soon for minor op.. MIL all geared up for drama liao.. :slapshead:

[janet88]

auntieM:

..really cannot tahan freeloaders..read also :mad:

My leechy leech BIL also due back soon for minor op.. MIL all geared up for drama liao.. :slapshead:

Those freeloaders are damn suckers like my sickening bil. Glad I don't have to put up with him and his wife much. That wife of his is one super troublemaker...can dig up old stories like her wedding many donkey years ago, claiming my hubby didn't give her face by not attending...hello! Hubby had to go for urgent biz trip leh. If he lose his job, which is more important - her face or my family ? :mad:

[janet88]

LOLMum:

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

Pardon my ignorance, but Hermes and Chanel are more ex than LV right ? One Chanel bag is about $5000. Hermes costs more, about $10K ???

If the wife's brother agrees to come up with money, then hubby has to reward her with a handbag liao :evil: