In-law problems?

[LOLMum]

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

[Pris.011283tang]

LOLMum:

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

My Dh used Lv haha thats why now i also will hold back when phones comes for weird emergency from my side learn how to gauge what is really emergency

[LOLMum]

Pris.tang:

LOLMum:

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

My Dh used Lv haha thats why now i also will hold back when phones comes for weird emergency from my side learn how to gauge what is really emergency

He uses lv, you buy Chanel?

[auntieM]

..really cannot tahan freeloaders..read also :mad:

My leechy leech BIL also due back soon for minor op.. MIL all geared up for drama liao.. :slapshead:

[janet88]

auntieM:

..really cannot tahan freeloaders..read also :mad:

My leechy leech BIL also due back soon for minor op.. MIL all geared up for drama liao.. :slapshead:

Those freeloaders are damn suckers like my sickening bil. Glad I don't have to put up with him and his wife much. That wife of his is one super troublemaker...can dig up old stories like her wedding many donkey years ago, claiming my hubby didn't give her face by not attending...hello! Hubby had to go for urgent biz trip leh. If he lose his job, which is more important - her face or my family ? :mad:

[janet88]

LOLMum:

yeah lor, tell her how many hermes bags u could have bought her if u have had some help with the expenses from her brother...

Pardon my ignorance, but Hermes and Chanel are more ex than LV right ? One Chanel bag is about $5000. Hermes costs more, about $10K ???

If the wife's brother agrees to come up with money, then hubby has to reward her with a handbag liao :evil:

[yanyan]

rotund:

Hi all,

This is the first time I've posted in this thread. just quarrelled with dh over his father.currently staying with my fil. He has the habit of cleaning himself after passing motion, splashing faeces on the toilet wall, floor and toilet bowl. Been telling him for 2 yrs n today i brought up to dh and commented that i can't stand it anymore n will move out. Dh screamed that i threatened him n made 难做人。dh spoke to his dad n fil screaming that passing motion is now a sin. Now fil said i can go back to my mum's pl n to stop using the bathroom n use the other toilet with only a smallstanding pl. Really dun wan to make things difficult for dh but hate to stay with fil

Some old people are like that.. Dun understand why too.. But can u get ur dh to clean the toilet after his dad uses it? Since that is his dad...
Only then he will understand what u are facing thru..

[newuser]

macaron12:

how do you celebrate mother's day with your mum & your MIL?

This year is easy choice for me. Celebration cancelled.
Sorry My son SA1, told both of them everyday is mothers' day.

[northernstar]

janet_lee88:

Same here...my hubby was brought up to be one who bottles up. He wasn't used to my family at first...with my aunts/uncles, we can talk about everything and he found it disrespectful. But this is my family, and we have been like this from young. My mum's siblings saw my brother and I grow up from young. To me, I find that if I am unhappy with something, I will speak up. But his mother brought them up to be the 'clamshell' type.

no, my MIL and DH are direct type. my MIL always asks for feedback for the dishes she cooks. she is not afraid of negative comments. but my DH will only be straightforward in front of me and his family.

[northernstar]

aurorin:

This is exactly the difference between my family and DH's family too! Even if wanna say something, must make sure frame in a super nice way.. cannot be upfront and honest w/i the family... i guess on one level, it is like wanting to just maintain peace so dont want to confront anything possible 'negative' things but also in a way, quite an escapist/ostrich in the sand way of dealing with things..

maybe, with my in-laws, i need voice out personally so that they can remember. but doing so will make me feel awkward when seeing them next time. i dunno how long i can endure... :faint: