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[buds]

I like how u phrased it.


\"Before I chop the stamp!\"

http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

[Canvas]

[quote=\"buds\"]I like how u phrased it.


\"Before I chop the stamp!\"

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[kooky83]

Hi everyone! i have four kids aged 16-29. My oldest son has already married. Raising four kids is really not easy but i’m quite fortunate cos my kids are all quite obedient and disciplined (probably except my youngest child now). they all either have a decent job or still in uni. I quit my job soon after my second child was born. If you don’t intend to quit your job, I suggest hiring a domestic helper or requesting your parents to help you take care of your child in the day. But i still think it’s rather important to be there to see the growing process of your child. I guess you don’t want to end up feel distant from your children.

[phankao]

kooky83:

Hi everyone! i have four kids aged 16-29. My oldest son has already married. Raising four kids is really not easy but i'm quite fortunate cos my kids are all quite obedient and disciplined (probably except my youngest child now). they all either have a decent job or still in uni. I quit my job soon after my second child was born. If you don't intend to quit your job, I suggest hiring a domestic helper or requesting your parents to help you take care of your child in the day. But i still think it's rather important to be there to see the growing process of your child. I guess you don't want to end up feel distant from your children.

And you haven't outgrown this forum? ;D

[kooky83]

i still got my youngest son to take care. still a kiasu parent

[tigger88]

Kooky83, envy you! All 4 kids are so big now!


I have 4 kids too and the eldest one is 7 years old. Still a long way to go for me.
I have a helper at home to help with housework and cooking so that I can focus on my kids when I am home after work.

[phankao]

kooky83:

i still got my youngest son to take care. still a kiasu parent

I thot there's nothing much to be kiasu about already with your 16yo. They live their life they way they want and reap the \"rewards\" of what they are willing to \"sow\". Most have their own minds and don't want us to interfere too much anyway. I have four too, by the way: 18,15,13, 3.

[buds]

phankao:

They live their life they way they want and reap the \"rewards\" of what they are willing to \"sow\". Most have their own minds and don't want us to interfere too much anyway.

Should i worry if mine is already doing that? :stupid:

I'm like dealing with a teenager but she's only 10! :frustrated:

[phankao]

buds:

phankao:

They live their life they way they want and reap the \"rewards\" of what they are willing to \"sow\". Most have their own minds and don't want us to interfere too much anyway.

Should i worry if mine is already doing that? :stupid:

I'm like dealing with a teenager but she's only 10! :frustrated:

Hmm... well my no.3 was like that at 10 too. I left him be. Reap the rewards of his laziness after PSLE lor.

[kooky83]

this year my son is having olevels but he is still very lazy. i’m a typical kiasu parent, still need to be there to guide him.