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    Kindergarten teacher charged with ill-treating child

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    • janet88J Offline
      janet88
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      Oppsgal:

      I will sue the teacher and the management, if this happen to my kid. :nunchuk:

      :mad: At least get the kid dress up before making the kid stand one naughty corner. Wonder if the environment is air-con and other than shame, the poor kid caught a cold and fell sick?

      Harming the poor kid by pushing on objects, is a wrong thing to do. The most I can accept is a slap on the hands. Really poor kid... :sad: Hope no head injury.

      What the other teachers do when saw such incidents happen? They got do anything to stop?
      Is this person certified to teach ? Does she have a certificate or diploma in pre-school teaching? It seems unlikely that the other teachers didn't see this incident. Did they keep quiet bcos they are scared?
      If any child is shamed or harmed, mothers' protective nature will go all out. In this instance, I think fathers will also be outraged.

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        Oppsgal
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        janet_lee88:
        Oppsgal:


        I will sue the teacher and the management, if this happen to my kid. :nunchuk:

        :mad: At least get the kid dress up before making the kid stand one naughty corner. Wonder if the environment is air-con and other than shame, the poor kid caught a cold and fell sick?

        Harming the poor kid by pushing on objects, is a wrong thing to do. The most I can accept is a slap on the hands. Really poor kid... :sad: Hope no head injury.

        What the other teachers do when saw such incidents happen? They got do anything to stop?

        Is this person certified to teach ? Does she have a certificate or diploma in pre-school teaching? It seems unlikely that the other teachers didn't see this incident. Did they keep quiet bcos they are scared?
        If any child is shamed or harmed, mothers' protective nature will go all out. In this instance, I think fathers will also be outraged.

        Definitely, my husband is shocked to hear the news too.

        News put up which childcare branch is that?

        Parents should withdraw their kids?

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          Busymom
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          Chenonceau:
          janet_lee88:

          [quote=\"Busymom\"]Hope there is proper follow-up counselling for the 5yo victim and her classmates. I will be really angry if this happens to my child.


          Touchwood.
          If this happened to my child, I will make sure TEACHER'S name and pic is published. I am sure many would want to see her face. And I will send my child to see a psychiatrist to make sure she is not traumatised.

          Yes... if this happened to my child, I would blog about the Teacher and place her photo. It's really cruel of me but I am REALLY REALLY angry.[/quote]Yes, we ought to be angry.

          Sometime last year when DD was in P1, the class schedules were revised and I think we didn't receive the revised schedules yet. DD forgot her PE t-shirt for the PE lesson. She heard from her friend (who also forgot to bring) that her teacher (male one some more) had threatened earlier that those who forget will be punished by not wearing any top! I was so shocked but also thought maybe DD's friend had misunderstood the teacher. In any case, I called up the school and said that perhaps the kids had mistaken, but if true, the teacher should not be threatening the kids that way. In the meantime, my helper rushed down to send her a PE t-shirt, only to find that the school had already lent one to my DD. :roll:

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            buds
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            This issue is not abt having certification to teach or not.


            Black sheeps (in any industry) can be super educated but lacking in EQ and interpersonal skills. Sometimes even values & morals. A person can have all the qualification required yet it does not mean they're perfect. You just cannot possibly tell upon hiring them. There are no tell-tale signs. Just look at that MOE scholar owning, watching, filming porn of young kids below 7!

            One colleague from my early days in the industry punished a boy to stand outside the class and I cautioned her that her student was the bo chap sort and having him outside the class may not be a wise idea cos cannot see what he was / could be up to. She was too angry to listen. Neither would she even consider to let him stand in my class. She wanted him to feel that he's going to sacrifice the fun the class was gg to hv next. To feel excluded.

            After my class finished physical education period, I purposely walked by from her end of the corridor just to check in the boy (didn't feel good abt him being left out of sight) and lo and behold, true enough he was gone! I quickly told my colleague. I was afraid that the mischievous boy might jump over the corridor of the second floor and *gasp*! Both of us immediately looked down, over the railings of the corridor. He wasn't there! I told her to go find him while I help her watch over her class. It finally sunk in how serious it was as she became rather frantic.

            Guess where he was?






            With his mom.

            She was early that day, so was waiting for class dismissal just downstairs.

            :yikes:

            Yup.... she was in big trouble over that incident.

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              Ran1977
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              any idea which kindergarten or childcare this is??


              also the child may not be well maybe having learning difficulties or some problems that may cause her to behave like that? shouldn’t the teacher investigate first with her parents rather than cause this punishement…

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                Chenonceau
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                Busymom:
                Chenonceau:

                [quote=\"janet_lee88\"]
                Yes... if this happened to my child, I would blog about the Teacher and place her photo. It's really cruel of me but I am REALLY REALLY angry.

                Yes, we ought to be angry.

                Sometime last year when DD was in P1, the class schedules were revised and I think we didn't receive the revised schedules yet. DD forgot her PE t-shirt for the PE lesson. She heard from her friend (who also forgot to bring) that her teacher (male one some more) had threatened earlier that those who forget will be punished by not wearing any top! I was so shocked but also thought maybe DD's friend had misunderstood the teacher. In any case, I called up the school and said that perhaps the kids had mistaken, but if true, the teacher should not be threatening the kids that way. In the meantime, my helper rushed down to send her a PE t-shirt, only to find that the school had already lent one to my DD. :roll:

                [/quote]I taught my kids from young that they have sovereign control over their own bodies. We role-played responses to situations where another adult forces them to take off clothes etc... I think (not sure) mine would have told that adult off and then told me.

                Happily, my kids had WONDERFUL kindergarten teachers. Very loving. Also PAP Foundation preschool.

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                  Funz
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                  Oppsgal:

                  Definitely, my husband is shocked to hear the news too.

                  News put up which childcare branch is that?

                  Parents should withdraw their kids?
                  News only stated she was an ex PCF teacher. Did not say which branch, whether childcare or kindergarten.

                  It is the action of 1 teacher, that teacher has been removed from the school and the matter is being investigated, why should parents not involved withdraw their kids?

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                    buds
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                    Busymom:
                    Reminds me of reading about a mom who did that to her own DD. Wasn't this posted in KSP before?

                    Yes it was Busymom...except that it was a daddy who did so. He told his teen daughter to undress before asking her to bend over to deliver the caning. The creepy part was when he actually posted at that instant he realized his girl was no longer his little girl and that she was budding! (has grown into a lady!)

                    Quite a number of parents responded to his post in discomfort and if I recall correctly, the post has been embargoed (or removed... not sure) due to its content.

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                    • FunzF Offline
                      Funz
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                      buds:
                      Busymom:

                      Reminds me of reading about a mom who did that to her own DD. Wasn't this posted in KSP before?


                      Yes it was Busymom...except that it was a daddy who did so. He told his teen daughter to undress before asking her to bend over to deliver the caning. The creepy part was when he actually posted at that instant he realized his girl was no longer his little girl and that she was budding! (has grown into a lady!)

                      Quite a number of parents responded to his post in discomfort and if I recall correctly, the post has been embargoed (or removed... not sure) due to its content.

                      :yikes: WHHAAATTT!?!?!?

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                        buds
                        last edited by

                        Funz:
                        Oppsgal:


                        Definitely, my husband is shocked to hear the news too.

                        News put up which childcare branch is that?

                        Parents should withdraw their kids?

                        News only stated she was an ex PCF teacher. Did not say which branch, whether childcare or kindergarten.

                        It is the action of 1 teacher, that teacher has been removed from the school and the matter is being investigated, why should parents not involved withdraw their kids?

                        :skeptical: Ya, why must resort to that?

                        Only one teacher who did so and is no longer there.
                        So, assume the whole centre (staff) liddat.. no morals?
                        Sorry, this isnt a fair judgment... if one is judging that is. 🤷

                        It's like blaming a whole system when only one or few individuals CMI.

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