Need an advice on office relationship matters

[valvestate]

Joule:

hot damn! brother, are you Singaporean? did you somehow eat her nasi kangkang?

HAHA :evil: Nah! We always eat in a local food court, I dunno if she steamed herself with one of the rice I was eating! Oh man, that's quite yucky man, just the thought of how a lady is doing it. LOL.

Joule:

flee from temptation?

Yeah, thinking of just shoo her away when she asks me again but I just feel pity that she's eating alone you know... and we don't talk about any nasty things and still keeping our conversation with a friendly yet professional attitude. Still... can't stop fantasizing her. :oops:

Joule:

1) no more personal lunches.
2) no more smses except professional ones
3) no more facebook. can you imagine if your boss or subordinates finds out?

by the way, I'm writing a fiction of a man something like you. see the forum.

yeah... thanks, still trying to control myself. It's another 2 hours before lunch time. We'll see how ah....

Oh... I was actually reading your fiction story before I posted here. I'm still awaiting for the continuation.

[Joule]

[quote]

HAHA Nah! We always eat in a local food court, I dunno if she steamed herself with one of the rice I was eating! Oh man, that's quite yucky man, just the thought of how a lady is doing it. LOL.[/quote]tar pow claypot rice and er.....bring toilet....
[quote]Yeah, thinking of just shoo her away when she asks me again but I just feel pity that she's eating alone you know... and we don't talk about any nasty things and still keeping our conversation with a friendly yet professional attitude. Still... can't stop fantasizing her. [/quote]friendly and professional is ok. but you know you're getting on the wrong highway when you're flirting

ok ok from this it seems like it is infatuation or a crush... it's a teenage thing. unusual to have it in 30s but hey it still happens

however you really have to take care around here because you are the 'boss' and she is staying 'alone'...which places both of you in a vulnerable position

if what you are doing is at this 'limit' then keep it there or shift the limits to a safer zone.

some behavior modification would be needed. does she outright come to ask you for lunch?

then it would be time to take evasive maneuvers....or find safety in numbers...or mention more of your wife and kid around her. Show her pictures. If she's 'not safe', you should be able to find a little facial twitch or slightest hint of a frown....

[mamago]

星星之火 可以燎原.


请三思…

[Joule]

mamago:

星星之火 可以燎原.


请三思....

translation: a small spark can lead to a blazing conflagration

please think thrice!

[KSP]

valvestate:

yeah... thanks, still trying to control myself. It's another 2 hours before lunch time. We'll see how ah....

sms your wife now and make lunch appt her today and next 2 weeks.....

if u still go lunch with the prc today then u are a GONER!!!!

[Joule]

I wonder why it is always PRC though.

[mamago]

Joule:

I wonder why it is always PRC though.

Your fiction's character also falls for a PRC?... (cham!)

Btw, when is your next installment coming up....

(It used to be the Taiwanese, now the Adam/s taste change... )

[KSP]

Joule:

I wonder why it is always PRC though.

1. gov open the door for them
2. speak same language, same culture and same asian
3. they understand want asian men want.....

[Joule]

eh hello I cannot reveal too much la you keep reading la…where did I put got PRC? hahaha


maybe I will do another installment tonight and tomorrow.

anyway you all roughly know how the story will turn out whaat…

[mamago]

KSP:

valvestate:

yeah... thanks, still trying to control myself. It's another 2 hours before lunch time. We'll see how ah....

sms your wife now and make lunch appt her today and next 2 weeks.....

if u still go lunch with the prc today then u are a GONER!!!!

ya.... and follow with movie tonight... before you head home today, shop for some love gifts for your wifey...

(精神上你已经出轨了 :nailbite: )