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    • NebbermindN Offline
      Nebbermind
      last edited by

      Mychildren:
      Can conclude he must be an engineering guy since he uses this for his nick.


      The above is referring to Nebbermind's post.
      or a hifi guy! πŸ˜‰

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      • V Offline
        verykiasumummy
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        its no point guessing the identity of whoever speaks or gives advices in this forum… no matter who they are, the purpose of coming online is to have some reservations about their identity so that they wun get identified in real life…

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        • M Offline
          mamago
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          Joule:
          mamago:

          Wait a minute.... Is this some sort of a conspiracy? Joule n Valvestate?


          Are we KSPs your study subjects?

          To substantiate my point, you both speak alike, though V's postings are of the verbal version, J's is the novel-writing manner... but, coincidentally both are as good n similarly extensive in the similar topic, and those descriptions of V are as intense as J's novel, though it's his first hand account vs a novel...

          Anyone else feel the same?

          As far as I know, this is not a conspiracy.

          I wonder why you would say that since I am the one producing the 'fiction' and you are the 'consumers'.....

          However, I would guess that Valve is of a similar demographic as me.

          e.g.

          1) we both are PMET

          2) heart language is English

          3) should be in 30s

          Now lets go deeper.

          Guessing:

          Valvestate = he either plays / played computer games such as Half-Life or Counterstrike. Reason: Valve is related to Steam which is the dl engine for these games

          Or...

          he is in the engineering / science background

          He is highly likely to be a graduate since he is from an MNC, since he 'corrects' his wife in English, may be also likely that he has studied or worked overseas (Oz, UK, USA). MBA is a possiblity.

          he could have English speaking parents or maybe 1 parent speaks English. Middle class family.

          may be from the ang mo pai schools - ACS, SJI, St Pats, etc. From there on, go to JC.

          Quite good at talking to girls / later on women. Can be flirty....if need be.

          Valve, let me know if my anyhow hantam got tio or not.



          That analysis of yours abt V ...... mmm ..... as though you \"created\" him .... Bravo! (now where is the applaud smiley?)

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          • M Offline
            mamago
            last edited by

            verykiasumummy:
            its no point guessing the identity of whoever speaks or gives advices in this forum... no matter who they are, the purpose of coming online is to have some reservations about their identity so that they wun get identified in real life...


            You missed the point .... it is not about the identity, or about whether they are doubles or not ...

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              Mychildren
              last edited by

              verykiasumummy:
              its no point guessing the identity of whoever speaks or gives advices in this forum... no matter who they are, the purpose of coming online is to have some reservations about their identity so that they wun get identified in real life...

              OK, its not important on the identity part. The important part is how to solve the problem. πŸ˜‚

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                Mychildren
                last edited by

                mamago:
                verykiasumummy:

                its no point guessing the identity of whoever speaks or gives advices in this forum... no matter who they are, the purpose of coming online is to have some reservations about their identity so that they wun get identified in real life...



                You missed the point .... it is not about the identity, or about whether they are doubles or not ...

                Ya, mamago, I sensed something too! But forget it. If they want to hear our views, I think that's all I've said & no more. πŸ˜‰

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                • V Offline
                  valvestate
                  last edited by

                  KSP:
                  oh man!!! this thread is like HK or Kr TV serial, can't help but keep coming here to find out what happen in the next episode.... got hook to this story line liao...


                  valvestate, are u going lunch with the prc today?
                  I know, right? LOL. This was my very first time to confess something on the internet since I started using PC on 1999. πŸ˜„

                  No, thank GOD. She told me yesterday that she will take an early lunch at 11am. I also told her that we'll not lunch since I have a meeting. 🀷

                  Spiderlily:
                  Is valve estate having us on? I dunno. Anyway, I joined just to post on this, because sounds so much like what I went through on the wifey's side, but no PRC involved.

                  If this is for real...I will be very surprised if V's wife does not sense that something is amiss.
                  Wifey's extremely sweet last night... just laying on my lap while using iPad, but I don't suspect that she knows something. I mean the woman doesn't really send me any SMS until I do so...

                  UPDATE:
                  Just had my lunch with other managers so all is well for now.

                  Tomorrow, we'll have a Karaoke party, lots of drinking... everybody will be there. I need to let myself composed and remind myself not to jump on her... :slapshead:

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                  • J Offline
                    Joule
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                    ksi:
                    valvestate, I am curious what breakfast she bought for you.... can share share?

                    is it.....nasi kangkang....I mean....nasi lemak?

                    ah sigh, I missed the morning.

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                    • K Offline
                      KSP
                      last edited by

                      Joule:
                      ksi:

                      valvestate, I am curious what breakfast she bought for you.... can share share?


                      is it.....nasi kangkang....I mean....nasi lemak?

                      ah sigh, I missed the morning.

                      :yikes: oh man, u make me want to vomit... i had a nice nasi briyani for lunch today... luckily just had a burp.... πŸ˜‚

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                      • J Offline
                        Joule
                        last edited by

                        mamago:
                        I mean, one can always tap in to get some real life responses from KSPs....


                        In real life, no man can be this open n good at (I meant really good at) describing his impending \"affair\"... unless it's \"not real\".... They are however, able to be very open about their spouses n children, cos, that's the real thing..

                        Yes, men do talk about their indecency n crack jokes about woman over clubbing beer sessions ... But no, I haven't come across a man that can detail his fantasies.... in black n white ...

                        unless he is writing a novel.
                        Ah. I don't know whether to feel complimented or what. But I'm smiling as I read this. Meaning I should be feeling happy. :imanangel:

                        \"no man can be this open and good?\"

                        You know, I had more than 1 girlfriend before I settled down, ok? The process is quite similar similar.

                        \"unless he is writing a novel.\"

                        novel? novel? or is it xiao shuo? xiao shuo is story is it?

                        as in I write for profit that kind ah? Hmm sounds like a good idea but then if I wanted to do this for profit I would be writing on a blog, gathering hits and then selling ad space and not on ksp. Still...

                        Oh by the way OT a bit you do know that among the teenagers, there's this 1 Singaporean guy that writes trashy teenage novels (as in, really pen and paper kind) and he distributes them through his network of student distributors? I heard he's earning 10k a month. 10k leh! siao right? The english is really crap and it's basically trashy pulp fiction, but don't know how come the teens like this sort of rubbish. ah well don't know la....

                        by the way OT some more ah, I have a good friend from sec school, female who used to write these kind of trashy pulp fiction ok? In Chinese some more. She once read to me a paragraph about this story of a woman (childcare teacher) who was cheated on by her lover and then she drugged him, tied him up and then castrated him. With a child scissors. She is now teaching Chinese in a primary school in the west area. You all better be careful ah.....

                        ok sorry valve, back to topic.

                        by the way, dowan to answer never mind also. I was curious.

                        how's the guitar playing?

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