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    Need an advice on office relationship matters

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    • L Offline
      Lilac66
      last edited by

      valvestate, I guess we’re all disappointed… I had thought you were a mature sensible man here to seek advice. You were not deliberately looking for some fling, that’s why you were fed so much input.


      But instead you carried on with this lady instead of fleeing the temptation.The fact that you still felt attracted to her shows the danger’s still there…

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        Joule
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        buds:
        Joule, can pm me too?

        I kaypoh. :please:
        sure. always happy to talk to catwoman

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        • B Offline
          buds
          last edited by

          Yay! 😉

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          • V Offline
            valvestate
            last edited by

            All right… all right.


            Apologies if I over reacted. Let me just work this out and update this thread.

            Thank you very much again for you the overwhelming response. I really-really appreciate this.

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              verykiasumummy
              last edited by

              valvestate:
              All right... all right.


              Apologies if I over reacted. Let me just work this out and update this thread.

              Thank you very much again for you the overwhelming response. I really-really appreciate this.
              u better wake up!!! no more dreaming...!!

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                nightlone
                last edited by

                BeContented:


                You ARE enjoying yourself.
                You ARE happily making all sorts of excuse to spend time with her. :spank:
                You ARE Definitely enjoying yourself reading all the responses from us

                If yours is a real case, my last posting here cos I can't bear to read it anymore. Good luck to your family.

                If it's not, you have fun.
                i'm inclined to agree with BeContented. We all remember flirting. The mystery. The heart beating quickly. will i see him/her today? i wonder if he/she is on this bus. Wonder what he/she is wearing.
                It's fun. Totally. Maybe u need some excitement in your life. Maybe u need to re-assert your manhood. whatever. but if u really love your wife and care about your family (u said u won't leave them ever), then u need to stop it. It's just horrible to do something like this to someone whom u say u love.

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                  smartmummy
                  last edited by

                  Just wanted to share the following threads,may be useful for some members here.

                  EMA - Extramartial Affairs
                  http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=4725&start=360

                  How do u maintain ur relationship with ur spouse,
                  http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=3380&start=230

                  I heard we have two types of IQ.
                  a)Intelligence IQ
                  b)Imotional IQ
                  Men always(most of the times) use \"a\"
                  Women always(most of the times) use \"b\"
                  When we are fighting to listen between \"a\" and \"b\" we get stress.
                  \"a\" says its wrong, don't do, \"b\" says its ok just do.We have to follow \"a\" and make decision, is good for long term.I attended a motivational talk for parents.I learnt the above theory.

                  whenever I ask peoples' opinions to change my habbit, I welcome to most harsh comments so that I can change my attitude.

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                    concern2
                    last edited by

                    smartmummy:
                    Just wanted to share the following threads,may be useful for some members here.

                    EMA - Extramartial Affairs
                    http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=4725&start=360

                    How do u maintain ur relationship with ur spouse,
                    http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=3380&start=230

                    I heard we have two types of IQ.
                    a)Intelligence IQ
                    b)Imotional IQ
                    Men always(most of the times) use \"a\"
                    Women always(most of the times) use \"b\"
                    When we are fighting to listen between \"a\" and \"b\" we get stress.
                    \"a\" says its wrong, don't do, \"b\" says its ok just do.We have to follow \"a\" and make decision, is good for long term.I attended a motivational talk for parents.I learnt the above theory.

                    whenever I ask peoples' opinions to change my habbit, I welcome to most harsh comments so that I can change my attitude.
                    Smartmummy! Thanks for dusting the cobwebs off those old threads!

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                      smartmummy
                      last edited by

                      hahaha....not that difficult.its under my \"view ur posts\".its my pleasure concern2!.thanks.

                      concern2:
                      smartmummy:

                      Just wanted to share the following threads,may be useful for some members here.

                      EMA - Extramartial Affairs
                      http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=4725&start=360

                      How do u maintain ur relationship with ur spouse,
                      http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=3380&start=230

                      I heard we have two types of IQ.
                      a)Intelligence IQ
                      b)Imotional IQ
                      Men always(most of the times) use \"a\"
                      Women always(most of the times) use \"b\"
                      When we are fighting to listen between \"a\" and \"b\" we get stress.
                      \"a\" says its wrong, don't do, \"b\" says its ok just do.We have to follow \"a\" and make decision, is good for long term.I attended a motivational talk for parents.I learnt the above theory.

                      whenever I ask peoples' opinions to change my habbit, I welcome to most harsh comments so that I can change my attitude.

                      Smartmummy! Thanks for dusting the cobwebs off those old threads!

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                        Blessedwife
                        last edited by

                        Hi Valvestate,


                        Have been reading your "love story" and I am thankful to god that you are not my hubby !!

                        Really feel like slapping you in the face to wake u up.

                        How I wish I knew your wife and I can tell her about it.

                        You should feel shameful of yourself instead of coming here to brag about a young pretty girl has fallen for you ?

                        You should look up to one of the daddy here (3boys) who is always so faithful and loving to his wife.

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