Spouse or Kids? Which comes first?

[verykiasumummy]

what?? 40% divorced?? got so high meh??

[nightlone]

westmom:

Hmm...spouse or kid first ?..Hmm


Scene A:
Feverish DD : Mom..I feel so weak and my fever is like it's not going to come down...
Me : Don't worry dear, I will sleep beside you tonight... You feel better then right?

Scene B:
Feverish DH : I got fever and I feel weak
Me : Just take panadol and go to sleep. By the way, sleep in the guestroom so that we don't get your virus...

Answer is quite clear for my case..hor ? ha ha....

Totally! Although we don't have guest room, I ask him to sleep in the hall

[jedamum]

Spouse first or kids first?

As much as I usually put my kids first, it is the appreciation I get from my dh that make me re think my priority - during one of those days when ds1 was testing my limits , and I was sulking at one corner, my dh came to me and told me that even when the kids have grown up one day and forgotten about how much I have done for them, he won't. :love:

[mamago]

verykiasumummy:

what?? 40% divorced?? got so high meh??

Wah, verykiasumummy, you are so pretty :please: .... oh, mine... (I also want one...)

[buds]

jedamum:

Spouse first or kids first?

As much as I usually put my kids first, it is the appreciation I get from my dh that make me re think my priority - during one of those days when ds1 was testing my limits , and I was sulking at one corner, my dh came to me and told me that even when the kids have grown up one day and forgotten about how much I have done for them, he won't. :love:

He sure sounds like a helluva romantic for Optimus Prime. Swoon.. :love:
You lucky woman. :celebrate:

[jedamum]

Yo buds.

Ds2 takes after the Prime.
A sensitive small dude who said he loves me even if I am fat .....then he offers to buy me jogging shoes with his savings.

[fightingmom]

jedamum:

Yo buds.

Ds2 takes after the Prime.
A sensitive small dude who said he loves me even if I am fat .....then he offers to buy my jogging shoes with his savings.

aww.. such a sweet boy you have, jedamum ! :love:

[jedamum]

Fightingmom

Thanks. He sure is.
Must hang on to these precious moments before they feel that we are uncool when they grow up.

[fightingmom]

jedamum:

Fightingmom

Thanks. He sure is.
Must hang on to these precious moments before they feel that we are uncool when they grow up.

Ya boi... Children - they just grow up so fast .. in fact too fast ! Enjoy and treasure those moments where they still allow us to hold their hands, hug and kiss them ! :love:

[buds]

jedamum:

Yo buds.

Ds2 takes after the Prime.
A sensitive small dude who said he loves me even if I am fat .....then he offers to buy me jogging shoes with his savings.

Nice diplomacy there..
Btw you're far from fat hokay!
I still remember your sexy legs hor ...
in those shorts you donned. :evil:

Can sense that DS2 sure can tug at your heartstrings..
Remember how he held my hand and won't let go even as I said it was time for me to go? Btw my DD2 said just a couple of days ago that she wants to do something nice for my birthday this year but she whined that I'm always around. :rant: