Need an advice on office relationship matters

[nightlone]

BeContented:

You ARE enjoying yourself.
You ARE happily making all sorts of excuse to spend time with her. :spank:
You ARE Definitely enjoying yourself reading all the responses from us

If yours is a real case, my last posting here cos I can't bear to read it anymore. Good luck to your family.

If it's not, you have fun.

i'm inclined to agree with BeContented. We all remember flirting. The mystery. The heart beating quickly. will i see him/her today? i wonder if he/she is on this bus. Wonder what he/she is wearing.
It's fun. Totally. Maybe u need some excitement in your life. Maybe u need to re-assert your manhood. whatever. but if u really love your wife and care about your family (u said u won't leave them ever), then u need to stop it. It's just horrible to do something like this to someone whom u say u love.

[smartmummy]

Just wanted to share the following threads,may be useful for some members here.

EMA - Extramartial Affairs
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=4725&start=360

How do u maintain ur relationship with ur spouse,
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=3380&start=230

I heard we have two types of IQ.
a)Intelligence IQ
b)Imotional IQ
Men always(most of the times) use \"a\"
Women always(most of the times) use \"b\"
When we are fighting to listen between \"a\" and \"b\" we get stress.
\"a\" says its wrong, don't do, \"b\" says its ok just do.We have to follow \"a\" and make decision, is good for long term.I attended a motivational talk for parents.I learnt the above theory.

whenever I ask peoples' opinions to change my habbit, I welcome to most harsh comments so that I can change my attitude.

[concern2]

smartmummy:

Just wanted to share the following threads,may be useful for some members here.

EMA - Extramartial Affairs
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=4725&start=360

How do u maintain ur relationship with ur spouse,
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=3380&start=230

I heard we have two types of IQ.
a)Intelligence IQ
b)Imotional IQ
Men always(most of the times) use \"a\"
Women always(most of the times) use \"b\"
When we are fighting to listen between \"a\" and \"b\" we get stress.
\"a\" says its wrong, don't do, \"b\" says its ok just do.We have to follow \"a\" and make decision, is good for long term.I attended a motivational talk for parents.I learnt the above theory.

whenever I ask peoples' opinions to change my habbit, I welcome to most harsh comments so that I can change my attitude.

Smartmummy! Thanks for dusting the cobwebs off those old threads!

[smartmummy]

hahaha....not that difficult.its under my \"view ur posts\".its my pleasure concern2!.thanks.

concern2:

smartmummy:

Just wanted to share the following threads,may be useful for some members here.

EMA - Extramartial Affairs
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=4725&start=360

How do u maintain ur relationship with ur spouse,
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=3380&start=230

I heard we have two types of IQ.
a)Intelligence IQ
b)Imotional IQ
Men always(most of the times) use \"a\"
Women always(most of the times) use \"b\"
When we are fighting to listen between \"a\" and \"b\" we get stress.
\"a\" says its wrong, don't do, \"b\" says its ok just do.We have to follow \"a\" and make decision, is good for long term.I attended a motivational talk for parents.I learnt the above theory.

whenever I ask peoples' opinions to change my habbit, I welcome to most harsh comments so that I can change my attitude.

Smartmummy! Thanks for dusting the cobwebs off those old threads!

[Blessedwife]

Hi Valvestate,


Have been reading your "love story" and I am thankful to god that you are not my hubby !!

Really feel like slapping you in the face to wake u up.

How I wish I knew your wife and I can tell her about it.

You should feel shameful of yourself instead of coming here to brag about a young pretty girl has fallen for you ?

You should look up to one of the daddy here (3boys) who is always so faithful and loving to his wife.

[Strparent]

Blessedwife:

Hi Valvestate,


Have been reading your \"love story\" and I am thankful to god that you are not my hubby !!

Really feel like slapping you in the face to wake u up.

How I wish I knew your wife and I can tell her about it.

You should feel shameful of yourself instead of coming here to brag about a young pretty girl has fallen for you ?

You should look up to one of the daddy here (3boys) who is always so faithful and loving to his wife.

LOL :rotflmao:

have not read the whole thread, but i think valvestate is just seeking attention in this forum......... or approval ?!!!

[Mawar]

You know what happens when you poo & pee & play in your office pool.

[3Boys]

Blessedwife:

You should look up to one of the daddy here (3boys) who is always so faithful and loving to his wife.

Errr.....yes.....but......

quite pantang for people to say such things hor....

I only make a strong statement because I know how weak we humans are, we can only plead with God that we are not led into temptation.

[Blessedwife]

3Boys:

Blessedwife:

You should look up to one of the daddy here (3boys) who is always so faithful and loving to his wife.

Errr.....yes.....but......

quite pantang for people to say such things hor....

I only make a strong statement because I know how weak we humans are, we can only plead with God that we are not led into temptation.

Oops *touch wood*
Choi choi choi

Sorry hor didn't know u will pantang...
But almost everyone if not all knows that you are the best hubby in here sI I just thought of u when I want to quote an example

:imsorry:

[3Boys]

Blessedwife, no apology necessary. There are probably many better husbands out there, it’s just that I am more open and to some it will come across as bragging. I don’t take my marriage for granted because I know how easy it is for things to so sour.


Cheers.