In-law problems?

[verykiasumummy]

3Boys:

mommylow:

[quote=\"verykiasumummy\"]

worse still, dh sides with them...!!

Son will always side with his own parents. Filial piety. It will probably take a lifetime if we want to make DH change sides.

Come to think if it, we also want our DCs to take sides with us rite?

Ummm.....no. Married is married, loyalty is to the spouse. (In a fair way of course)[/quote]ya i also think loyalty is to the spouse... isnt that all that was sworn in the wedding vow?? since when mil was ever in the vow??

\"i now pronounce u as my wife, together with my mother. we shall all be together living in harmony, in poor or rich, in health or sick.... blah blah blah..\"

red words are added now...

[verykiasumummy]

MMM:

I wonder if we should start to educate all our kids (boys and girls) that they have equal responsibility during our old age :?

my parents nv taught me about that but i think its all about our own mindset... even to teach my dc now, they may forget when they are old...

[janet88]

If I am married to his mother, doesn't that mean HE is also married to my mother??? :rotflmao:

Do not wish to have my happy days ruined by them...hubby said his sister and the family may be coming back for a visit again...asked him what for? To remind mother to sell their flat and make sure she has a share? Shame on her...eyeing parents only asset. She and her angmoh husband are like vultures. When they came back last year and stayed at parents place...they didn't fork out a single cent. Instead, got a skin thick enough to ask hubby to buy them ALL (6 people) breakfast on weekends :mad:

[verykiasumummy]

many sils are just as beh zi dong as yours…


they either :
- act dumb or is really dumb
- act smart alec
- act poor
- act stupid
- act ignorant
- act filial
- or just be a bimbo!

who is a writer here??? we are offering new and sure-sell-better-than-hotcakes stories…

[verykiasumummy]

i realise i’m very 没仪态 in this thread…


will remind myself not to probe in here… i must return to my angel self…

[mommylow]

janet_lee88:

If I am married to his mother, doesn't that mean HE is also married to my mother??? :rotflmao:

Do not wish to have my happy days ruined by them...hubby said his sister and the family may be coming back for a visit again...asked him what for? To remind mother to sell their flat and make sure she has a share? Shame on her...eyeing parents only asset. She and her angmoh husband are like vultures. When they came back last year and stayed at parents place...they didn't fork out a single cent. Instead, got a skin thick enough to ask hubby to buy them ALL (6 people) breakfast on weekends :mad:

By no means you mil should ever sell her house, not when she is still alive. Dun let it happen. Where will she stay then? She will become your responsibility once she has no place to stay and your scheming sil will certainly not take her in. Seen a lot of such cases already.

[SAHM Chew]

Yap. Objection. They get the assets n we get the pain??? Lol

mommylow:

janet_lee88:

If I am married to his mother, doesn't that mean HE is also married to my mother??? :rotflmao:
Do not wish to have my happy days ruined by them...hubby said his sister and the family may be coming back for a visit again...asked him what for? To remind mother to sell their flat and make sure she has a share? Shame on her...eyeing parents only asset. She and her angmoh husband are like vultures. When they came back last year and stayed at parents place...they didn't fork out a single cent. Instead, got a skin thick enough to ask hubby to buy them ALL (6 people) breakfast on weekends :mad:

By no means you mil should ever sell her house, not when she is still alive. Dun let it happen. Where will she stay then? She will become your responsibility once she has no place to stay and your scheming sil will certainly not take her in. Seen a lot of such cases already.

[SAHM Chew]

verykiasumummy:

i realise i'm very 没仪态 in this thread....


will remind myself not to probe in here... i must return to my angel self...

Verykiasumummy, no worries, your in laws will not know.... :rotflmao:

[verykiasumummy]

SAHM Chew:

verykiasumummy:

i realise i'm very 没仪态 in this thread....


will remind myself not to probe in here... i must return to my angel self...

Verykiasumummy, no worries, your in laws will not know.... :rotflmao:

hahaha... :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[contentedSAHM]

actually my issue is not with sil, i am ok with DH footing the bill, it is i am pissed with MIL’s comment that 这是应该的…why must she pass this kind of remark, like DH owes it to her …in the 1st place, she doesnt look after my children and she doesnt even cook for us whenever we visit her


i hv 2 sils, this one who is bringing MIL on hol is reasonable, cant speak for other one who is more well-to-do and takes advantage of my DH !

I wish i have no in laws at all !