Extra Marital Affair

[blurqueen]

kiasimom:

I noticed that when DH has strayed, most of the DW will forgive them. But if it is DW who has strayed, most DH will not forgive their DW.

Why?

It's called double standard. :roll:

[kiasimom]

Maybe we, women are more forgiving.

My dad once said, : Women are like cups, can only be stirred with a stirrer, men are like stirrer, can stir many cups!"

When men strayed, they think it is normal and they are charming, if women strayed they call you cheap and easy!! :x

[Andaiz]

Double standards!

[buds]

kiasimom:

Maybe we, women are more forgiving.

Heck we are..
Uhmmm... :idea:
Correction. Some of us women are forgiving.
May not be all. :evil: Cannot blanket sweep all lah haa.. :lol:

kiasimom:

My dad once said, : Women are like cups, can only be stirred with a stirrer, men are like stirrer, can stir many cups!\"

Wah lao weh! :shock: :rotflmao:

kiasimom:

When men strayed, they think it is normal and they are charming, if women strayed they call you cheap and easy!! :x

Uh-huh.. double standards indeed.

Yep. It boosts their ego and their lust.
And ironically some men hafta pay for this ego thing. :roll:
It's like paying somebody to tell them they look handsome..
or that they are good lovers... or that they are quite the catch
and that their wives dunno how to appreciate them..

Ironically too that it is those women who are cheap, easy, sleazy
are the ones they (some men) like to use!

So womenfolk out there, remember to appreciate your ah-lau hor.
Dun give them excuse for those misdemeanours they call transgressions..
or any kind of mid-life-crisis... or the 7-yr itch... or whatever. Compliment
your man physically..... emotionally..... and boost his ego before someone
else does that for you! :lol: Everyone needs assurance once in awhile, and
it is only nice if the compliments are two-ways of course.

Appreciate the man's contributions to the family... For the little help he
gives around the house... For the little things that matter. A happy man
is a faithful man.... i rephrase that..... A happy man should be a faithful
man... hopefully.

My friend's man left her for a foreigner after 20 years of marriage with
only one reason. He said he had NEVER loved her. So, go figure.

[Andaiz]

buds:

My friend's man left her for a foreigner after 20 years of marriage with
only one reason. He said he had NEVER loved her. So, go figure.

so what was it that lasted 20 years then? Lust and good ??? or the fact that he doesn't feel appreciated?

[corneyAmber]

buds:

kiasimom:

My dad once said, : Women are like cups, can only be stirred with a stirrer, men are like stirrer, can stir many cups!\"

Wah lao weh! :shock: :rotflmao:

Hmm...but the key point of a cup is not the stirrer, it can be made of beautiful china and porcelain many will envy, clean and polish and store in the cupboard like a trophy and re-useable. A stirrer? Use and dispose.. Oops! So I would say not all men are like stirrers but it is a cute analogy.

[3Boys]

kiasimom:

Maybe we, women are more forgiving.

My dad once said, : Women are like cups, can only be stirred with a stirrer, men are like stirrer, can stir many cups!\"

I have a coffee cup at home that holds all my stirrers, about 20 of them.....am I talking about the right thing?

[buds]

3Boys:

kiasimom:

Maybe we, women are more forgiving.

My dad once said, : Women are like cups, can only be stirred with a stirrer, men are like stirrer, can stir many cups!\"

I have a coffee cup at home that holds all my stirrers, about 20 of them.....am I talking about the right thing?

:!:

Wah lao 3boys!

Now.... i've got to calm down first to analyze this. Hmmmm... :idea:
From what you blatantly shared, depending on the coffee cup you
use to store them, whether it's coffeeshop kinda cup or a polished
china.... you are indirectly saying that either...

1. You're quite the \"collector\". :lol:
2. Your \"collections\" are reminders of your trophies... ie. each stirrer
representing a cup that it stirred in.... :evil:
3. You're quite the \"gay\" kinda collector.... And it may not mean happy. :rotflmao:

you noe i'm pulling your leg hor..

[autumnbronze]

buds:

3Boys:

[quote=\"kiasimom\"]Maybe we, women are more forgiving.

My dad once said, : Women are like cups, can only be stirred with a stirrer, men are like stirrer, can stir many cups!\"

I have a coffee cup at home that holds all my stirrers, about 20 of them.....am I talking about the right thing?

:!:

Wah lao 3boys!

Now.... i've got to calm down first to analyze this. Hmmmm... :idea:
From what you blatantly shared, depending on the coffee cup you
use to store them, whether it's coffeeshop kinda cup or a polished
china.... you are indirectly saying that either...

1. You're quite the \"collector\". :lol:
2. Your \"collections\" are reminders of your trophies... ie. each stirrer
representing a cup that it stirred in.... :evil:
3. You're quite the \"gay\" kinda collector.... And it may not mean happy. :rotflmao:

you noe i'm pulling your leg hor..[/quote]

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[kiasimom]

You know buds,


You are full of humour genes... :rotflmao:

I always LAUGH OUT LOUD reading your posts!

You make my day :hugs: