Di Zi Gui 弟子规
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Below is the television program segment that Master Jing Kong 淨空法師 emphasizes on the importance of di zi gui <弟子规> which has been successfully implemented in China 中国汤池小镇
主持人：所以现在很多老师、校长都非常痛苦，家长也很痛苦，孩子很难教，你稍微对他严厉一点，他会跳楼，大人怎麽活！
主持人：你不给他讲，他又胡作非为。
How should we (principals, teachers and parents) teach children nowadays who threaten to commit suicide if we are too stern to them or misbehave if we don't discipline the them?
主持人：他们要请教您，怎麽办？
老法师：学《弟子规》，我们在汤池做的没有别的，就是落实《弟子规》，就能把人整个唤醒过来、醒悟过来。
Teach di zi gui. By implementing di zi gui in China Tang Chi, people will be awakened to reality and see the truth.
For video, please refer to link below, 0:16:28
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u348fZlqaPs
For full text:
http://smbk.hebnews.cn/blog-37435-29532.html -
Below are details of FREE Di zi gui class conducted by retired teachers & principal (from Hwa Chong JC):
<弟子规> 亲子学习班
新加坡中华传统文化促进会主办
日期: 星期六
Date: Sat
时间: 上午9点30分至上午11点30分
Time: 9.30am - 11.30am
地点 (Venue) : 学习乐托中心 Learning Bliss,
51, Coronation road, #04-00 Singapore 269460
Tel:64648158
课程: 免费
Lesson: FREE
年龄: 成人于儿童班, 于同时间上课。(共8课)
Age: Adult and children class will commence at the same time as stated above. (Total: 8 lessons)
内容: <弟子规> 以仁爱于和谐为中心。
Content: Di zi gui emphasize benevolence and harmonious relationship as core teaching.
有兴趣参加的家长, 需要填上报名表格。
Interested parents can call up to request for registration form. -
Would like to share this insightful book that offers useful parenting tips:
我们教了孩子什么 (作者：陈文卿)
What have we taught our child? (Author: Chen Wen Qing)
为人父母的该教孩子什么呢？
What should the parents teach their child?
一、行为举止要视场合而定，
演奏厅、游戏场、大饭店、家庭中各有不同的表现，父母要不断叮咛一一指导，而且要，让孩子动如脱兔、静似处子，分寸拿捏恰到好处，不会扰乱他人才是有家教的好孩子。
(1) Behaviour and manner will vary depending on the situation, like concert hall, playground, restaurant or home. Parents need to guide their kids constantly, so that the kids will behave appropriately in different occasion without being a nuisance to others.
二、说话要轻声细语、字字分明，谈吐大方、用词优雅，加上一颗善体人意的心，一定会让孩子人气百分百、处处受欢迎。
(2) Converse gently and clearly with pleasant words as well as being empathetic, will enable the child to gain popularity everywhere.
三、主动释放善意，待人亲切有礼，多一分尊重，少一分傲慢，自然赢得他人的友谊。
Show kindness spontaneously.By treating others with respect will enable the child to garner friendship.
在社区中进进出出，别忘了教孩子向管理员道早问好，电梯里虽然不是很熟的邻居，我们也可以面带微笑、点头致意，上下公车，大方地说出心中的感激，
Need to teach the child to greet others, even for neighbours that we met in the lift, we can smile and nod our head or show appreciation to the bus driver verbally when we take public transport.
就算爸妈接送上下课，也要习惯表达谢意，点点滴滴累积无比的热力，孩子就会像暖暖的冬阳，人们总是迫不及待的想要拥抱他。
Show gratitude to parents who fetch the kids to and fro school.
气质是最好的化妆品，良好的家教更如端庄合身的服饰，衬托出高贵的人格，让人爱不释手、赞叹不已！
Personality is the best cosmetic, good family education is akin to a well-fitting clothing that complement integrity. :rahrah:
Above article can be found under 目 錄, topics: 家教佳教:
http://www.minlun.org.tw/3pt/3-dreamweaver/38-01.htm -
lovelydaughter:
Thank you, lovelydaughter.My girl is in Nursery, next year will be K1.
This is an ongoing courses, cannot join in half-way.
1st segment of 《弟子规》already finished (12 lessons). 2nd segment will commence on 2 Dec (Sun), 10am to 11.30am.
Below are details of the classical studies (di zi gui is one of the module) conducted by Blossom World Society:
Classical studies is a way to strengthen a child’s memory, attention span, language skills and reading comprehension; it gradually molds and cultivates the child’s character.
Participants will be taught to read many classic essays, which convey traditional Chinese values such as equality, respect for elders, diligence and thriftiness.
Age : 3-6
Fees: S$60 (per section)
Language Medium: Mandarin
读经乐园
第1阶段：《古今背书方法》12堂课
第2阶段：《弟子规》24堂课
第3阶段：《朱子治家格言》12堂课
第4阶段：《三字经》36堂课
http://www.blossomworld.sg/course/chinese-classical-enrichment-classes/
had called up to inquire.
Blossomworld starting <弟子规> for new kids joining on 17 March 2013 (Sunday) morning
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Thank you for your gem sharing, lovelydaughter !
may i ask -
how they teach Di Zi Gui ?
is it sing song (besides memorize verses) - exactly like what the did in that small town in China ?lovelydaughter:
Would like to share this insightful book that offers useful parenting tips:
我们教了孩子什么 (作者：陈文卿)
What have we taught our child? (Author: Chen Wen Qing)
为人父母的该教孩子什么呢？
What should the parents teach their child?
一、行为举止要视场合而定，
演奏厅、游戏场、大饭店、家庭中各有不同的表现，父母要不断叮咛一一指导，而且要，让孩子动如脱兔、静似处子，分寸拿捏恰到好处，不会扰乱他人才是有家教的好孩子。
(1) Behaviour and manner will vary depending on the situation, like concert hall, playground, restaurant or home. Parents need to guide their kids constantly, so that the kids will behave appropriately in different occasion without being a nuisance to others.
二、说话要轻声细语、字字分明，谈吐大方、用词优雅，加上一颗善体人意的心，一定会让孩子人气百分百、处处受欢迎。
(2) Converse gently and clearly with pleasant words as well as being empathetic, will enable the child to gain popularity everywhere.
三、主动释放善意，待人亲切有礼，多一分尊重，少一分傲慢，自然赢得他人的友谊。
Show kindness spontaneously.By treating others with respect will enable the child to garner friendship.
在社区中进进出出，别忘了教孩子向管理员道早问好，电梯里虽然不是很熟的邻居，我们也可以面带微笑、点头致意，上下公车，大方地说出心中的感激，
Need to teach the child to greet others, even for neighbours that we met in the lift, we can smile and nod our head or show appreciation to the bus driver verbally when we take public transport.
就算爸妈接送上下课，也要习惯表达谢意，点点滴滴累积无比的热力，孩子就会像暖暖的冬阳，人们总是迫不及待的想要拥抱他。
Show gratitude to parents who fetch the kids to and fro school.
气质是最好的化妆品，良好的家教更如端庄合身的服饰，衬托出高贵的人格，让人爱不释手、赞叹不已！
Personality is the best cosmetic, good family education is akin to a well-fitting clothing that complement integrity. :rahrah:
Above article can be found under 目 錄, topics: 家教佳教:
http://www.minlun.org.tw/3pt/3-dreamweaver/38-01.htm -
The lessons are taught using a combination of songs, videos on traditional values, games, in addition to the reciting sessions to the young kids.
Actually, the best ways for kids to learn is through setting a role model ourselves.lovelydaughter:
Below are details of the classical studies (di zi gui is one of the module) conducted by Blossom World Society:
Age : 3-6
读经乐园
第1阶段：《古今背书方法》12堂课
第2阶段：《弟子规》24堂课
第3阶段：《朱子治家格言》12堂课
第4阶段：《三字经》36堂课
http://www.blossomworld.sg/course/chinese-classical-enrichment-classes/ -
Below is the television program segment that Master Jing Kong 淨空法師 emphasizes on the importance of di zi gui <弟子规>:
主持人：其实学《弟子规》比较简单，做起来也方便，首先受益的是我这个家庭。
淨空法師：自己，不是家庭，你自己本身第一个受益。为什麽？现在讲和谐，《弟子规》做到的时候，你身心和谐，无论是你的思惟、言行，自自然然它就合规矩，这个规矩是跟性德相应，所以舒畅！
The First person to benefit from Di zi gui will be YOURSELF. :imcool:
When you practise Di zi gui, you can attain Harmony both physically and spiritually. Your thought and action will naturally correspond with the standards (standards that synchronise with moral values) .
主持人：所以要想实现和谐社会，是先要让每个人自己都和谐。
老法师：不错，你每个人不和谐，他的家就不和，家不和社会怎麽会和？所以中国人讲的是修身、齐家、治国、平天下。
By cultivating one's moral values, this will ensure harmony in family and ultimately a peaceful society.
For video, please refer to link below, 0:19:27
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFOlaRFQfRM&feature=relmfu
For full text:
http://smbk.hebnews.cn/blog-37435-29532.html -
Below phrases are some teaching of dizigui 弟子规, under the category, 余力学文 which explain effective studying methods:
读书法
Appropriate Methods to Study
有三到 心眼口
They involve CONCENTRATION in three areas:
- Your Mind
- your Eyes and
- your Mouth
信皆要
To BELIEVE in what you read is equally important.
方读此 勿慕彼
When you start to read a book, do not Think about another.
此未终 彼勿起
If you have not completed the book, do not Start another.
宽为限 紧用功
Give yourself lots of time to study, and Study Hard
工夫到 滞塞通
Given Time and Effort, you will Thoroughly Understand.
心有疑 随札记 就人问 求确义
If you have a Question,
- Make a Note of it,
- Ask the person who has the Knowledge, for the Right Answer.
Explanation of methods to study under 余力学文 can be viewed from 11.59 to 14:19
http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/P_EUAnYvRPM/ -
Does anyone know where to buy the "zhonghua dizigui" DVDs in Singapore? I saw a few episodes on Youtube but would prefer DVD for easier viewing.
Dangdang.com seems to sell it but is this online store safe and reliable? -
Dear Lovelydaughter,
Appreciate for your sharing. I had watched it early last year and really amazed with Master Ching Kong’s effort to make impossible to possible.
I had watched most of the DI Zhi Gui’s real life stories via youtube. I came to know the right values after watching all these meaningful youtube. However, i must say it really takes a lot of effort to pratice in our daily life.
We were the happiest parent when we knew that our son got into Mee Toh Primary School which is very important for 1 big reason - the moral education. Kids get to learn Di Zhi Gui and glad that the principal encourages P1 onwards to attend Dharma class.
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