Cold Wars (with your spouse)

[sleepy]

dun_waste_time:

And to all the wives here, please speak up too. Men CANNOT and NEVER understand what you are thinking. Please be specific... Men are really bad at this, we don't know, we really don't (at least 60-80% of the time)...

hahaha and if we don't know what's wrong, we can still go to bed snoring, but women will be kept awake wondering why the husband is not responding... hahaha

Yes totally agreed with these 2 points :rotflmao:

[3Boys]

ahkeong:

most of the time, its wake up, send kids to school, send her to work.. den work.. after of which, pick up the kids, come home, do some housework and revise schoolwork, sleep..

simply no time to sit down and trash things out at all..

You MUST make some alone time. Your kids won't suffer for a little less attention once in a while, they WILL suffer if your marriage falls apart.

[octoberbaby]

When I see a young couple gets married, this is the beginning of MARRIAGE

[sunlight7]

3Boys:

ahkeong:

most of the time, its wake up, send kids to school, send her to work.. den work.. after of which, pick up the kids, come home, do some housework and revise schoolwork, sleep..

simply no time to sit down and trash things out at all..

You MUST make some alone time. Your kids won't suffer for a little less attention once in a while, they WILL suffer if your marriage falls apart.

Well said ..... :rahrah:

[kids_r_innocent]

sleepy:

dun_waste_time:

And to all the wives here, please speak up too. Men CANNOT and NEVER understand what you are thinking. Please be specific... Men are really bad at this, we don't know, we really don't (at least 60-80% of the time)...

hahaha and if we don't know what's wrong, we can still go to bed snoring, but women will be kept awake wondering why the husband is not responding... hahaha

Yes totally agreed with these 2 points :rotflmao:

Haha... I also agree :hi5: men really cannot understand wat we are thinking or even at times, if we drop hints to them, they will still be blur blur. So I have learned to SPEAK out to my hb when tings get out of hand.

[smartmummy]

sleepy:

dun_waste_time:

And to all the wives here, please speak up too. Men CANNOT and NEVER understand what you are thinking. Please be specific... Men are really bad at this, we don't know, we really don't (at least 60-80% of the time)...

hahaha and if we don't know what's wrong, we can still go to bed snoring, but women will be kept awake wondering why the husband is not responding... hahaha

Yes totally agreed with these 2 points :rotflmao:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[ky_har]

A quote that i saw and showed DH


" When i apologise, it’s not because I believe I’m wrong, it’s because I value our relationship more "

This is something that i live by.

[vinegar]

actually i don’t mind to apologise if i am in wrong. My dh is the one who apologised more often coz he knew he was in wrong(he raised his voice most of the times).


but now,he is beta control of his temper knowing that it will influence the kiddo.

Anyway,we always so busy until no time to quarrel coz no time to talk

[Jennifer]

vinegar:

Anyway,we always so busy until no time to quarrel coz no time to talk

My cold war with hubby has ended. I started the pillow talk before he falls asleep. It is the only time I get his full attention. A few nights of pillow talk cleared up many issues.

[TheAnswer]

Jennifer:

vinegar:

Anyway,we always so busy until no time to quarrel coz no time to talk

My cold war with hubby has ended. I started the pillow talk before he falls asleep. It is the only time I get his full attention. A few nights of pillow talk cleared up many issues.

I got no energy to quarrel with DH. We keep the peace between us.