BGR for a 13 year old

[AdonciaTang]

Headache case.

[phankao]

phtthp:

if your child attend co-ed IP Sec school like NJC, TJC, RVHS -

how do you teach your Secondary girl / son not to be involved in BGR ?

Dunno - I never do much? Our 2 older ones gone thru co-ed. Eldest finish JC, and the 2nd eldest in Sec 4 has been in co-ed since sec 1. So far no interest leh. They just happily observe their friends who are pairing up (!!!).

[Nebbermind]

phankao:

phtthp:

if your child attend co-ed IP Sec school like NJC, TJC, RVHS -

how do you teach your Secondary girl / son not to be involved in BGR ?

Dunno - I never do much? Our 2 older ones gone thru co-ed. Eldest finish JC, and the 2nd eldest in Sec 4 has been in co-ed since sec 1. So far no interest leh. They just happily observe their friends who are pairing up (!!!).

I think it's not possible to control emotions.
We can only teach them sexual responsibility, especially avoid coming into close physical contact with the opp sex and also going out on single dates until they are old (?) enough, respect for each other's body etc.

Then again, in reality, how they react to our preachingq is still a BIG '?'

[Joule]

can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

[Nebbermind]

Joule:

can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

[AdonciaTang]

Nebbermind:

Joule:

can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

What happened?

[ngl2010]

AdonciaTang:

Nebbermind:

[quote=\"Joule\"]can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

What happened?[/quote]Yeah.... What happened?

[kwcllf]

AdonciaTang:

Nebbermind:

[quote=\"Joule\"]can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

What happened?[/quote]Sexual crimes. They were all over in newspapers.

[AdonciaTang]

Gotta check it out then.

[ttlkbs]

13 is too young, then is 16 young too? Dunno how to talk to a 16 yr old boy about this.