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ngl2010:
:rotflmao: :hi5:Are you showing your posts to your DS?
My sister used to threaten her DD2 that she will make her stay with me if the girl is naughty. The threat is only effective for 1 hour. Once the girl forgot, she misbehave again.... Kekekeke.... -
We didn’t show him this post. We cannot stand unmotivated-ness and academic incompetence in children. A child with both is the last straw for us.
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Namie:
We didn't show him this post. We cannot stand unmotivated-ness and academic incompetence in children. A child with both is the last straw for us.
You really weren't kidding or just scaring him? :yikes:
Goodness me. -
Namie:
Our son is lazy, spending his time on TV only. My husband and I have decided to send him away for good. Do anyone know are there children's homes to take in the kid?
Wondering ...
how many husbands would get sent away , if only wives could , for the same crime? -
Namie:
We didn't show him this post. We cannot stand unmotivated-ness and academic incompetence in children. A child with both is the last straw for us.
If your son is unmotivated, there are 2 ways to tackle it:
1. Incentive
2. Discipline
Or combination of both. You must take into account your son's character and situation when applying any of them. There are many types of incentives and discipline that you can use. You must see what works with your son. I think if he is above P3, he should not be canned anymore. It will be tiring to talk and talk and talk sense to him but it is better than physical punishment.
For the academic competence, you must find the root cause. Is he lazy but actually a smart boy? Is academically smart or is he street smart (they are different)? Is he academically weak (in this case you must manage your expectation)? Are his teachers good teachers (some teachers really can't teach)? After you find root cause, then you address it.
Everything takes time. He will not change in 1-2 months. It may take 1-2 years or more. Be patient. -
Sun_2010:
:rotflmao:Namie:
Our son is lazy, spending his time on TV only. My husband and I have decided to send him away for good. Do anyone know are there children's homes to take in the kid?
Wondering ...
how many husbands would get sent away , if only wives could , for the same crime? -
Sun_2010:
Why not? Many already did with WC as backing.. :evil:Namie:
Our son is lazy, spending his time on TV only. My husband and I have decided to send him away for good. Do anyone know are there children's homes to take in the kid?
Wondering ...
how many husbands would get sent away , if only wives could , for the same crime? -
Seems that blood isn’t necessarily always thicker than water…
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Oh dear, read this book please:
http://motivationgenome.blogspot.sg/2012/07/chapter-3-of-petunias-book-for-browsing.html
and you will realise the reason your son is unmotivated is really you. Ever since I read that book, I don't use the word 'unmotivated' on my kid anymore! -
Flowermonaster:
If she is kidding, then it is NOT funny..Namie:
Our son is lazy, spending his time on TV only. My husband and I have decided to send him away for good. Do anyone know are there children's homes to take in the kid?
I don't believe what I am reading! You are kidding right?
If she is not kidding, then it IS funny..
Wa, son is lazy & watches TV, must send him away for good.. Then many kids will be sent away for good.. Hubbies too.. :siao:
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