Club 2007 Kiddo

[SAHM_TAN]

patlsy79:

For working mom without maid, not easy to teach at hm le. my gals in cc frm 8-630pm. by the time finish dinner, bath almost sleeping time. and for mom, we have to do laundry, pack sch bag for tomorrow, fold clothes & some washing etc. How easy?

It doesn't take long, can be 10 mins per day. You can buy the cards and words for spelling and tingxie from Popular. For Eng I saw books in Popular that are common use words, sight words, with word cards at the back.

If you are too tired to do the above, which I can totally understand, then just read with them a bedtime story each night, pointing at the Eng words and Chi char as you reach each word and char aloud.

The 3rd option would be to send them for classes during wkends.

After going thru P1 with dd1, I find that P1 is more like bridging. It's not that scary. If the expectation is full marks for every assessment then there might be more stress. But if willing to trust the school and teachers then can relax a bit though still need to monitor and manage expectations accordingly. Home support is still important, no matter how capable the teachers are in school.

[sembgal]

patlsy79:

For working mom without maid, not easy to teach at hm le. my gals in cc frm 8-630pm. by the time finish dinner, bath almost sleeping time. and for mom, we have to do laundry, pack sch bag for tomorrow, fold clothes & some washing etc. How easy?

Maybe you can teach your twins during weekend? I'm a FTWM and can understand what you are going through. Usually when I return home, I put the clothes in washing machine. For clothes that need to hand wash, soak them first. Then have dinner. After dinner, I spend a few mins to guide my child how to do 1 to 2 pages of assessment book. Then, I do washing by hand if I need to. My child would have finish her work by then. Bring the child to toilet bathe and come out teach the child what is expected to do in assessment book, 1 or 2 pages only. Then my turn to bathe, any questions that the child does not know, my child will ask Daddy for help or wait for me finish my bath. After that, my child has free time, can do anything, draw, play toys, read book or watch tv or use electronic gadgets.. When laundry is done, I get my husband to hang clothes. Then I will read books together with my child and very soon it's bedtime. I get a part-time domestic helper to come in during weekends so that I can relax a bit. Weekends teach the child a bit and go out enjoy family bonding time.

[MintyMin]

patlsy, yes.. not ez for a wrking mum to teach at home..


I am a FTWM too w no helper of coz with 3 kids, 1 in P2 this yr.. dd1 is the 2007 kid n dd2 2009, time is nvr enuff.. but well.. i believe, when u got the will to do it, there's aws a way to do it..

you may get an exercise book for both your twins and you juz write 2 words every day on it for them to practice from Mon-Thurs then on Friday, you can give them as spelling.. whichever speed you feel comfy, tis is juz an example.. so mayb while u r washing or folding clothes, they do the practice.. so tis way.. they have tings to do n u can do your chores in peace.. how tat sound? Just a suggestion..

[patlsy79]

hi all mommies really thanks for your kind words & suggestions. Ok will try my best to do it for sake of my kids!

[Castle House]

Morning to All..


Ya.. time is never enough with kids going to school, parents working.. and then come home need to do housework.. guide the kids etc...

I am like Pal.. (mintymin).. 3 kids.. staying with my mil... My time is fully focus on time when I reach home after work...

My focus now are on my 2 older kids..

The eldest one, who is P2 this year, ... with his hw, spelling and tingxie..and tropical tests coming.. etc..

The 2007 de.. starts to have spelling and tingxie this year.. but she can learn on her own.. so I just test her.. correct her stroke.. and some of the character as she can mix big and small letters..

My youngest.. her 1st year to attend school.. I am happy that she is adapting well.. come home.. sing the songs that she have learnt.. and I realised too that she can recognise some of the alphabets and numbers...

I am happy with the currect schedule and arrangement with all my kids...

Next year, will need to re-adjust as my 2007 girl will be P1.. so need to divide some of my time for her..

[MintyMin]

Morning Everyone!!


patlsy79, dun worry.. everyone is here to learn and share with one another how to cope and guide our kiddos..

I am suppose to be like castlehouse(my pal too), to focus on my 2 older kids.. however, due to the difference in their learning capability, my time spent is mainly on my P2 ds.. n like today is dd1's tingxie n spelling.. I only revise with her the night before.. A bit unfair on my part.. but bo bian.. since ds takes longer time to learn while dd1 learns her spelling n tingxie quite fast.. tis soon became a routine.. but i guess dd1 realised the difference n is asking y the time spent wif her is not as much as the time spent for kor kor.. so i muz make up to it..

So you c.. it is not ez.. but i feel.. as long as i try my best to make it work n explain to them y certain tings are not done the way it should in that nothing is fair.. n there's only ONE MUMMY.. so they will understand..

Tis week slowly.. ds starts to learn on his own while i spent time wif dd1.. so now.. for dd1.. tis is FAIR for her.. but i guess.. soon will be dd2 tat is gg to complain.. :slapshead: :evil:

But all is good.. i find myself better at managing them already.. heehee.. :oops:

Till den.. there's still the cooking part.. :faint:

[em83]

Hello! I'm new here! My eldest is born in 2007 and the younger one in 2010

[SAHM_TAN]

em83:

Hello! I'm new here! My eldest is born in 2007 and the younger one in 2010

:welcome:

My younger kids are same years as yours.

[Castle House]

em83:

Hello! I'm new here! My eldest is born in 2007 and the younger one in 2010

Welcome onbaord..

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