All About Teaching Values
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mel2sg:
Your girl did well by being honest. At least she can hold her head up high and I am sure the teacher will remember her for her integrity.Hi
During the recent SA2, my girl's (P5) English result got above 85, and when the teacher went through the paper with the class, my girl spotted an error in marking & highlighted to her teacher. Thus, resulting in deduction of 1.5 mark - nevertheless, after deduction still in band 1. The best part is she told me if teacher did not deduct the 1.5 mark, her English mark would have been the highest in the whole co-hort, and she could have gotten a recognition.
I told her in Chinese saying - straight straight honest honest one day sure be beggar. Sometimes in life you need to be smart, selfish and tell a bit of white lies, and I told her I am sure some of her friends would have just keep quiet when teacher mark wrongly. Am I wrong to advocate such advice? Am I teaching the wrong values? Appreciate your kind comment. Thanks.
Life is not about winning at all expense. At the end of the day, nobody remembers how many medals or how much money you have but whether you have treated others fairly and with kindness and honesty. -
Raemuumy:
Our children learn best when they see us in action. Checking our own actions as parents takes some effort, but it is definitely worth the effort.verykiasumummy:
i like to flip thru the newspaper for interesting stories and articles to share with my kids... moreover, they are real life incidents so kids can relate more by seeing the actual ppl involved... it somehow works better than those books on illustrations..
of cos, i did tat when they reach p2-p3, cos they may not understand those at younger age..
Me too. I share stories and news with my kids, hoping to developing a reading interest for themselves. -
Yup, learning the values young indeed will be beneficial to their growing up stages.
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parents cultivate our child values , so true . Agree with channel education !
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sundaymorning:
parents cultivate our child values , so true . Agree with channel education !
To add on, true child values are learnt from home...from the parents....
but Im just wondering how true is it that modern parents have no time and assumingly pass this role to the school teachers and expecting them to do that...
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Being a role model to the children is a must, they learn from the way we behave as adults. They also learn from others who they see and learn from too, like their teacher or tutors who are teaching them.
They are like the MINI US. Hee… (My two daughter look like me) -
Hiholow:
I totally agree...cos they are sponges when they are young and they absorb almost everything including values, habits, attitudes, mindset by observing us all the time...most adults thought that as long as the kids are nearby but not watching, they can talk or do whatever they want....but children are smart...they are always listening and watching from the corner of their eyes.Being a role model to the children is a must, they learn from the way we behave as adults. They also learn from others who they see and learn from too, like their teacher or tutors who are teaching them.
They are like the MINI US. Hee... (My two daughter look like me) -
Yeap. I used to always use the work okay in almost everything i say even when sometimes I am not listening. Younger dd picked it up and when i am talking to her, she is not listening and just saying okay. I realized my mistake and talked to DD and told her my behavior is rude and unacceptable and that i shouldnt be doing that and she shouldnt be learning. She changed after I stopped doing that and from then I then know that they really am are mini us, listening, observing and learning from what we do because we are the adults and they think we are the role models that they should learn from
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[quote] I realized my mistake and talked to DD and told her my behavior is rude and unacceptable and that i shouldnt be doing that and she shouldnt be learning.[/quote]
Really respectable...it takes alot of courage to admit to their children that their parenting behaviour is wrong and seek forgiveness from the children too...wow...
impressed...i did apologise to my DD1 when I did something wrong and I know how hard it is... -
JohnYeo:
[quote] I realized my mistake and talked to DD and told her my behavior is rude and unacceptable and that i shouldnt be doing that and she shouldnt be learning.
Really respectable...it takes alot of courage to admit to their children that their parenting behaviour is wrong and seek forgiveness from the children too...wow... impressed...i did apologise to my DD1 when I did something wrong and I know how hard it is...[/quote]Yes it is!
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