In-law problems?
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auntieM:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:ChiefKiasu:
[quote=\"tutormum\"]TOTALLY AGREE!!! Not only lock your main gate and door, next time lock your bedrooms also before you go away. If MIL asks, just tell her that it's for security reasons cos you are afraid there is a break-in and you have lots of valuables in the house. :lol:
Yes... and don't forgot to leave some water and biscuits for your MIL in case she grows hungry :evil:
..better not be my MIL.. or she will have to eat those expired and crushed bicuits she bought for my DS... :P[/quote]It is my MIL that they are all talking about.
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Cheero AuntieKiasi :hugs: .. ..believe me...there are 'scarier' ones around.. :!:
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auntieM:
Cheero AuntieKiasi :hugs: .. ..believe me...there are 'scarier' ones around.. :!:
Yeah..quite true... :gloomy: :gloomy: sometimes how I wish she go to all those old folks home & see for herself how lucky she is..... -
sigh…that’s why when my mil stayed wif me after i had #2, n that’s when i became sahm, i lost 10kg over 2 yrs. when i go out wf friends for wkday dinner occasionally n i wld bring along my kids toom she gets really blackface cos she wld bre alone as my hub wks late. she also blackface when my gal prefers me to bathe her, not the granny. once i attending couple empowerment course in church, alrdy told her i m attendg a class, she still called me to ask can follow me or not. i face her 24/7, see her more often than my hubb, i wonder whom i married, hub or her?
i cant go anywhere wifout my mil if i brg my kids, unless i say i m gg out wf my mum or friends. and one day i told her i visitg my mum, she accuse my mum of askg me go back becos it was chu yi (first day of ch lunar mth) and say my mum want me drink talesman paper to cast a spell on me n hubby. she was mad cos my mum alrdy buddhist, not taoist n i alrdy convert to catholic. -
24hr-mum:
Wow :shock: your MIL so sticky. She scared of the dark or what, must follow you wherever you go ??? Mine also Taoist...so don't want to have head-on with her...best thing is to leave her alone.once i attending couple empowerment course in church, alrdy told her i m attendg a class, she still called me to ask can follow me or not. i face her 24/7, see her more often than my hubb, i wonder whom i married, hub or her?
i cant go anywhere wifout my mil if i brg my kids, unless i say i m gg out wf my mum or friends. and one day i told her i visitg my mum, she accuse my mum of askg me go back becos it was chu yi (first day of ch lunar mth) and say my mum want me drink talesman paper to cast a spell on me n hubby. she was mad cos my mum alrdy buddhist, not taoist n i alrdy convert to catholic. -
insecurity. her idea is her kids and grandkids must surround her everyday if possible. cant do things on her own. now she is better but when she was wf me, i had to bring her see dentist, buy shoes, etc if hubby not alone. she became my another ‘baby’
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24hr-mum:
insecurity. her idea is her kids and grandkids must surround her everyday if possible. cant do things on her own. now she is better but when she was wf me, i had to bring her see dentist, buy shoes, etc if hubby not alone. she became my another 'baby'
If she appreciates all your effort, then it's worth it...some do not appreciate and take it for granted. Worse still when they talk behind your back :x in front of the other DILs. -
AuntieKiasi:
Even if these old ones go to old folks home, they will never appreciate and know how fortunate they are.auntieM:
Cheero AuntieKiasi :hugs: .. ..believe me...there are 'scarier' ones around.. :!:
Yeah..quite true... :gloomy: :gloomy: sometimes how I wish she go to all those old folks home & see for herself how lucky she is..... -
it was the emotional bondage i couldnt take it.
she fought with me over the kitchen, the household, the kids especially (how to discipline or handle them). and when my maid came she fought with maid, load me wif lots of unfounded accusations against my maid etc
she pampers my kids esp #1 who was cared by her from birth - buy clothes, water bottles , toys EVERY WEEK. and dont allow me to scold or cane them.
she only care whther they ate meat but nvr bother whr they ate veg or fruits。 #1 was constipated at 2.5yrs n its a nightmare to overcome that -
24hr-mum:
Sorry to say this, but that's tough to handle indeed.it was the emotional bondage i couldnt take it.
she fought with me over the kitchen, the household, the kids especially (how to discipline or handle them). and when my maid came she fought with maid, load me wif lots of unfounded accusations against my maid etc
she pampers my kids esp #1 who was cared by her from birth - buy clothes, water bottles , toys EVERY WEEK. and dont allow me to scold or cane them.
she only care whther they ate meat but nvr bother whr they ate veg or fruits。 #1 was constipated at 2.5yrs n its a nightmare to overcome that
I thought she was just 怕黑 and demanding your attention.
This kind of spoiling/pampering makes it difficult for you to discipline...sure to clash if need to. I really have to salute you for the courage to stay with her.
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