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    In-law problems?

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    • E Offline
      ectanz
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      Another question : hv yr MIL helped u during yr confinement?


      My MIL didn’t help me during my confinement even we stayed quite near to each other. Luckily, I hired confinement auntie to help me during the first mth.

      My MIL helped me once for market-ing but complained tat why I ate so much fish n thread fin quite ex. But all these expenses were paid by my hb. However she bought 1 kg of thread fin for her daughter’s confinement. Very extreme, right?

      She came to visit me once n full of complaining abt the confinement auntie n me. This is also the reason of why I quite reluctantly to let hecoma me to my place during my maternity. Anyway she claimed tat she cannot handle baby who is 8 mth n below.

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        KZYPmum
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        ectanz:
        Does anyone receive any gift fr yr MIL?

        Yup, si dian zhuan on wedding day, ang pow on birthdays (combined gift from her and fil), and one coach bag when she went to the states...

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          mummy of 2
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          ectanz:
          Another question : hv yr MIL helped u during yr confinement?

          I hired confinement lady cos me and DH didn't want to tire her out, even when she was staying for us during second confinement. But she does the marketing 😄

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            BeContented
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            ectanz:
            Another question : hv yr MIL helped u during yr confinement?

            MIL did try to help as DS is the first grandson. But I got my mom to be my confinement lady, so MIL just guest appearance. She did get me lotsa pork & chicken :faint: but endup pissed me off with her comments. Not a meat person, I dun consume a lot and she would claimed who & who ate 1 whole chicken in a day during confinement while I would take >3 days.
            And during DS's feeding time, MIL would hissed that I'm starving the grandson & tried to stop me from breastfeed claiming my milk lousy cos' I dun have enough nutrition :mad:

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              ectanz
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              KZYPmum:
              ectanz:

              Does anyone receive any gift fr yr MIL?


              Yup, si dian zhuan on wedding day, ang pow on birthdays (combined gift from her and fil), and one coach bag when she went to the states...

              So envy! For my case, tangugu.

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                ectanz
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                cwc:
                ectanz:

                Another question : hv yr MIL helped u during yr confinement?


                MIL did try to help as DS is the first grandson. But I got my mom to be my confinement lady, so MIL just guest appearance. She did get me lotsa pork & chicken :faint: but endup pissed me off with her comments. Not a meat person, I dun consume a lot and she would claimed who & who ate 1 whole chicken in a day during confinement while I would take >3 days.
                And during DS's feeding time, MIL would hissed that I'm starving the grandson & tried to stop me from breastfeed as I dun have enough nutrition :mad:

                Really too much! :mad:

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                  auntieM
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                  My MIL didn't even lift a finger or show up at my place during confinement.. ...

                  She was there only during the baby full month celebration for drama though.. :mad:

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                    ectanz
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                    auntieM:
                    My MIL didn't even lift a finger or show up at my place during confinement.. ...

                    She was there only during the baby full month celebration for drama though.. :mad:
                    Hi auntieM, how many children do u hv? Girl or boy?

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                      ectanz:
                      auntieM:

                      My MIL didn't even lift a finger or show up at my place during confinement.. ...

                      She was there only during the baby full month celebration for drama though.. :mad:

                      Hi auntieM, how many children do u hv? Girl or boy?

                      Hi ectanz, just one boy.. to her dismay I guess, she'd rather we be childless...
                      Long story lah... ..if you have time can back track on this thread. Loads of :yikes: :yikes: stories from KSP mummies here.. 😉

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                        kids_r_innocent
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                        ectanz:
                        KZYPmum:

                        [quote=\"ectanz\"]Does anyone receive any gift fr yr MIL?


                        Yup, si dian zhuan on wedding day, ang pow on birthdays (combined gift from her and fil), and one coach bag when she went to the states...

                        So envy! For my case, tangugu.[/quote]Haha.. at first i was trying to interpret wat kind of tonic is tat!! So its in hokkien. 😉

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