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    In-law problems?

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    • jedamumJ Offline
      jedamum
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      Sunflower03:
      Hi Mummies,


      How come you all do visit your own parents often? My siblings's family and mine will visit them alternate week.

      Hubby with in laws are fine with each other too.
      when we used to own a car, we visit weekly.
      now my mum is busy with my young nephew...weekend going out places with nephew and family or just resting at home, so my brother will schedule gatherings as frequent as all our schedules allow.

      i will try to visit in laws weekly. the expression of my FIL when he sees the grandchildren is priceless. :love:

      i rather visit my ILs than them visit me because my house is in a mess compared to their well-kept house. 😓 sometimes after their visit to my house, i get fresh supply of groceries/snacks! lol. :oops:

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        janet88
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        Glacier:
        My mil is the queen of liars. 100 words she say, i can only listen to 10 words. The rest of her words, I have to take it with a pinch of salt.

        Mine here is the QUEEN of drama.
        When she says NO, it means YES. There was once she quarrelled with son and then crying buckets and wanting to die. She wanted that son to know but told everyone NOT to let him know.

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          Sunflower03
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          Janet_lee88,


          Your mother in law very drama lei...

          My in laws are diff. They will quarrel among themselves as they are not in good terms for so many years. Whenever something went wrong, my MIL will bring out the past and scold her husband.

          At times, they even scold vulgarities when my kids are with them.

          Sooner or later, my kids will learn from them. 😓

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            janet88
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            Sunflower03:
            Janet_lee88,


            Your mother in law very drama lei...

            My in laws are diff. They will quarrel among themselves as they are not in good terms for so many years. Whenever something went wrong, my MIL will bring out the past and scold her husband.
            Mine here doesn't treat husband with respect. But she super drama...I told hubby and he agrees. Can win Golden Horse award.

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              SAHM Chew
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              straffan23:
              You ladies here makes me feel so envious, lar... :oops: My MIL comes over to my place 3 to 5 times a day, everyday. The current arrangement is already the best so far - weekdays, she comes over as and when but I am at work (hence, can die cannot fall sick else will have to deal with MIL at home!). Weekends, the moment she comes or calls, I ask my children to go wake papa... so she doesn't call/come over too early like she used to! Imagine she used to come at 7:30am and my husband wakes up at 10:30am!! :yikes: :yikes: So halfway she might get bored or gan-cheong, she will goto my room, sit on my bed or next to it, then chit chat with my half asleep husband! :siao: :siao:


              Let's not even get started on MIL's daughter's tactics!!
              You are still better off than me. :rotflmao: I am a SAHM and i stay with my in laws.... 😓

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                fifiyeo
                last edited by

                My sabo queen MIL when quarrel is - slam this and that. Like going to tear down the house!

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                  verykiasumummy
                  last edited by

                  mine is silent dog bites!!


                  unhappy with me but dun tell me… tell fil, sil, bil and dh… sometimes even tell dc… and suddenly burst out saying she’s sick because she angry with me for days but i nv apologise…

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                    verykiasumummy
                    last edited by

                    janet_lee88:
                    Glacier:

                    My mil is the queen of liars. 100 words she say, i can only listen to 10 words. The rest of her words, I have to take it with a pinch of salt.


                    Mine here is the QUEEN of drama.
                    When she says NO, it means YES. There was once she quarrelled with son and then crying buckets and wanting to die. She wanted that son to know but told everyone NOT to let him know.

                    wah... 溏心风暴 every day and night....

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                      verykiasumummy
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                      fifiyeo:
                      My sabo queen MIL when quarrel is - slam this and that. Like going to tear down the house!

                      my galfriend's mil also like that... in the end she posed as neighbour and made a complaint to police and town council... mil received warning letter and shut up...

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                        verykiasumummy
                        last edited by

                        SAHM Chew:
                        straffan23:

                        You ladies here makes me feel so envious, lar... :oops: My MIL comes over to my place 3 to 5 times a day, everyday. The current arrangement is already the best so far - weekdays, she comes over as and when but I am at work (hence, can die cannot fall sick else will have to deal with MIL at home!). Weekends, the moment she comes or calls, I ask my children to go wake papa... so she doesn't call/come over too early like she used to! Imagine she used to come at 7:30am and my husband wakes up at 10:30am!! :yikes: :yikes: So halfway she might get bored or gan-cheong, she will goto my room, sit on my bed or next to it, then chit chat with my half asleep husband! :siao: :siao:


                        Let's not even get started on MIL's daughter's tactics!!

                        You are still better off than me. :rotflmao: I am a SAHM and i stay with my in laws.... 😓

                        ai ya me too....

                        but we moving next yr... cant wait.... 😃

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