smurf:Erm, dun even give choices, eat whatever is served...dun wanna eat? Can, but will be hungry lor, dun give biscuits, snacks after the meal even if the child dun finish the meal and is hungry.. if u do that, next time, he or she would think, never mind lah, if I dun eat this, later also got snacks what...and dun say,'eat more veggies ok? It's good for u, blah blah blah...'
When u nag, your kids usually won't listen.
i hope whatever i shared is taken with a pinch of salt
..and you're right, parents shouldn't nag at children. we should tell & fill them with facts