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Thanks mummies (and daddies) for sharing.


have resolved the problem...I really hate drunkards...because when young, I witnessed my dad coming home drunk, beat us, hit my mum, smashed this smashed that...which i why I utterly hate drunkards.

anyway, he has promised not to drink again, but I'm just going to give another chance. but no excessive drinking anymore is my rule. as I super hate drunkard. :x

to me, drinking until drunk is a very dangerous thing to do, imagine you are alone, drunk?? what would happen? there are so many bad people out there. regardless whether you are a man or woman, same thing la.

I'm glad things got resolved already. I do hope your your dh fulfills his promise to not drink excessively. I'm hoping for the best!

I agree, maybe you and your DW needs the time off because of stress. Also i disagree of you trying to find some romance in others. Those young China that you mention will still become b*tchy (sorry for the term) when you give them kids in the future. And also, it would only worsen the situation your now in. Maybe you're just being too lax about your parenting situation that your wife thinks your not too involved enough. Communication is the key, but be calm about it...shouting at each other will only create more tension. I hope things will improve for both of you.

Hmmm, interesting information. I'm only aware of oysters and some seafoods as aphrodisiacs. Well let's see if these are truly effective :evil:

I’m sorry you’re going through such a traumatizing experience. It’s either you keep silent about it or tell your friend about it. Whether you do either of the two, your friendship still gets affected since the scumbag has a connection to both of you. If you wouldn’t want to cause so much trouble with your friend’s family, stay away from them in the meantime.But I suggest you tell your friend so that she would at least know why you’re staying away from them. It’s up to your friend if she confronts her BIL about it…That bastard should at least be warned before doing that again to you. If he does it again, don’t hesitate to talk to the authorities already. I hope all goes well in the end.

I usually initiate the task of surprising my dh. He's used to surprise me a lot when we were sweethearts but he's mostly busy right now with and I understand. He's reminding himself every time i surprise him with little things and gives back the favor whenever he can and we both appreciate those from each other. I guess it works that way for both of us.

I don’t let it affect me or my ways with how I deal my ds. But I do get ideas if ever I find them to have good results. Benchmarking is also an advantage but you shouldn’t let it control you or let it be a reason to question your capabilities as parents.

I'm not sure if I believe everything the article is saying or the effect is that extreme although I do know that it is genuinely important to not neglect our kids. I observed that they become more confident and can socialize better with their peers if you give them the adequate attention, that's pretty much the reason why I'm a SAHM.

My DS (2 yrs) still kisses me and my DH on the lips, although he loves hugging just as much! It's still nice to feel your kid's love through this physical moments. We should be greatful at moments like this. When they grow up, they'll eventually outgrow the ritual and we, parents, might just be surprised to be missing it by then.

I was worried one time that I was gaining more weight from eating more than usual and said...


Me: Oh no, my tummy's getting bigger already.
Son: That's okay mommy, our baby is inside!

Waaahhh!!!
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It's tough having no maids at all although it only takes effective time management in order to achieve the activities you want to do. My DS is now 2 years old and I have been at home eversince to care for him myself with no help from anyone except a slight help from my working husband. I'm now a work at home mom, still care for my son, but at the same time working. I give him toys and educational videos to watch to keep him preoccupied and I work more hours every time he sleeps. If I do get tired, I get help and pay for someone to do the laundry and the ironing. I guess I have been used to this set-up already. I'll think of a different solution if ever my DS will go to school already.