Does your child kiss you on the lips?
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DS used to kiss (well, not really a kiss, but a peck) on the lips too, and I used to hug and kiss him on the cheek when sending him off to school. Now that he is in Sec 1, he has grown into a distant, moody teenager who wouldn't even let me touch him on the shoulder. He shrugs my hand off.
So markfch, enjoy it while you can. Your DS will eventually outgrow it. -
kuzco:
DS used to kiss (well, not really a kiss, but a peck) on the lips too, and I used to hug and kiss him on the cheek when sending him off to school. Now that he is in Sec 1, he has grown into a distant, moody teenager who wouldn't even let me touch him on the shoulder. He shrugs my hand off.
So markfch, enjoy it while you can. Your DS will eventually outgrow it.
DH always tell me not to kiss or hug DS too much now that he's older (P3), ...DH said I should be the one to 'outgrow' this habit first coz to him, this action of hugging & kissing kind of 'girlish'...but I know once DS outgrow it I'm really gonna miss it
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sakura_2009:
You mean you are the one that should outgrow this habit? Your dh is funny. :lol:
DH always tell me not to kiss or hug DS too much now that he's older (P3), ...DH said I should be the one to 'outgrow' this habit first coz to him, this action of hugging & kissing kind of 'girlish'...but I know once DS outgrow it I'm really gonna miss it -
hey parents, not all teens will resist your hugs. I’m happy to share that I still share hugs and kisses (cheeks nia) with my ds (sec1) and dd (jc2).
Occasionally, we hold hands too when we’re out. -
My daughter squeeze my butt and sticks out her forehead to receive a kiss whenever I drop her off at school. :lol:
After school, she will hand me her schoolbags and wait to receive a squeeze from this poor, heavily laden with bags and umbrella mother before grabbing my hand for the walk home.
I miss the kiss on the lips. She stopped doing it after she became paranoid since starting P1 and learning abt HFMD. Even up to now, she will not share drinks or food with anyone except with me. Even then, she will ask if I've a mouth ulcer first. :roll: -
ds1 now will only plant his lips on my cheek for 1/100 of a second...no kissing sound.
ds2 at times will want to lick my face! :lol: -
My DS (2 yrs) still kisses me and my DH on the lips, although he loves hugging just as much! It's still nice to feel your kid's love through this physical moments. We should be greatful at moments like this. When they grow up, they'll eventually outgrow the ritual and we, parents, might just be surprised to be missing it by then.
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my gal likes most is to kiss my lips........(she is already sec1 now....
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Looks like most mums like this kind of bonding while some dads do not appreciate this as much. Venus & Mars?
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not true leh.. my dh also loves kissing dd on the lips too. but i get more chances la since i spend more time with her :love: anyway we also teach dd only can kiss papa and mama like that and not other people (cos of hygiene). personally its also reserved for the closest people to her.
some more, i was thinking if she grow up kissing other boys and girls, she may think its perfectly fine to do so even when she's in her teens... no boys for obvious reasons, no girls becos she may become sexually disoriented :lol:
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