Why does MUM has to make all the Decision?????
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mummy of 2:
Gosh, we're like your family, Mummy of 2. Only difference is, my son is probably older so he chooses what he wants for books. I also roughly know his style, so I buy on the internet quite often. He likes science books - depending on the subject he fancies, I shop for them. My hit rate is quite good - around 90%, although that also means got around 10% he doesn't like.We discuss on the major decisions - like which school to send the kids to, where to go for holiday etc. As our thinking is quite similar, we are mostly aligned in our decision.
Most of the things related to the kids, I'm in-charge, like books, games, puzzles, toys etc. I buy and pay for the stuff but actually the money comes from the monthly (shopping) allowance DH gives me.
Sometimes i do feel over-whelmed, like when things get hectic at work. Then I request that DH helps out, like reading to the kids, and coaching DS1 to do some work.
Mostly I'm happy with the arrangement. He provides the funding, and I provide the resousrces (time and energy) for our kids. At the end of the day, we want the best for the kids, and we are both working towards that
Btw I don't mean DH neglects the kids. He is just happy to leave such things to me, since he is less well-informed about such stuff.
We don't go to the libraries cos we have no time.
I know a lot of friends with this sort of arrangement - probably hubbies don't want to bother with the details of the day to day stuff! -
At the end of the day, it's about finding a balance and an arrangement which works, and makes both parties happy
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Men do little bit extra, will complain like hell just like my dh. Women do, it's your duty and you do it best w/o complaint. Tat's women has to make all the decision. Husbands will then always say wives are smarter and they made the right decisions.
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He is ONLY his Daddy, but She is his ONLY Mummy.
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Daddies are more ‘bo-chap’. Quite a common phenomenon in Singapore. Not sure about the rest of the world though.
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because Mummy knows BEST??
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i think mummy is more of a detailed person and looks into minute bits while daddy looks at the big picture and not think so deeply.
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God create us as a woman to make us suffer.
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happysheltie:
Relax! he realised that.God create us as a woman to make us suffer.
the improved version appeared soon after.
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In terms of research for kid's stuff, Mummy is the \"detailed one\".
Daddy will usually do the end job of giving opinion \"Yes\" or \"No\" and give $$$ to support the idea :oops:
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