No Problem is problem

[caroline3sg]

dolphinsiah:

No women like to be a \"Mad Women\" at home....

Why we behave like that....



Is because the husbands are not providing us enough...

They expect the wives to bring in the bacon$$$
be the maid...be the tutor...be their cook...be their mum....

I also want to dress up to go shopping ...have high tea ...do manicure
come back just entertain my husband....
but can meh!!!
Unless my husband is a billonaire... :love:

Local mothers are very attached to their kids and very defensive about the families...

You think like those \"young grass\"...USE YOUR BRIAN

I feel so frustrated ....why I choose to marry ...such a heartless man...
He comes home sit in front of the TV....
Weekend is for his Golf and God...

Whereas me I have to slaught...check the kids homework...communicate witht the kids....do housework...go the supermarket....do the laundry...ironing....

And still yet complain that his pants are not iron properly....



I so stress...I am hanging on and enduring this marriage...for the sake of my kids....

I do not quarrel with my spouse because ...I do not want to affect my kids...they are innocent....

I always tell my kids ...once they grow up....I might leave their Dad....

Another more 10 years.... I will gain my freedom....

It is important for us women to be financially independant. I am waiting for MIL or him to pass on, then I gain my happiness (ie now I pay all bills, groceries and equipment replacement). He on the washing machine himself and hang his own laundry/bedsheets. Part time maid irons his clothes. Now he messed up my girl's room with his magazines (ie my children sleep with me in 2 bedrooms knock through); wait till my son gains puberty, he would be banished to his own room and he can 'nuan' in his own nest.

[janet88]

Men who go for greener pastures aka young grass do not know what is in store for them. This greener pasture is not as demure or innocent as one thinks. So if men get grumbled, nagged or scolded by their wives at home, find out the reason.


Any man can say he does housework, but if done in a slip-shod way, it’s as good as NOT doing. If my hubby does housework any-how, I will be very unhappy. Put yourself in wives’ shoes and you will understand BETTER.

[mrswongtuition]

janet_lee88:

Men who go for greener pastures aka young grass do not know what is in store for them.

This is so true. Someone I know left his rather young wife and kids for someone YOUNGER. End up with loads of credit card debts for him to clear.

Now asking his ex-wife to get back 'for the kid's sake'.

[janet88]

Men who think their wives always nag or scold them should find out why. Don’t go for greener pastures and end up huge credit card bills and another baby. I believe Mediacorp has produced enough dramas for viewership…there must be some truth.

[wapobs]

janet_lee88:

Men who think their wives always nag or scold them should find out why. Don't go for greener pastures and end up huge credit card bills and another baby. I believe Mediacorp has produced enough dramas for viewership...there must be some truth.

wives who nag should learn to keep their mouths shut.

it only makes tender grass taste sweeter.

[3Boys]

janet_lee88:

Men who think their wives always nag or scold them should find out why. Don't go for greener pastures and end up huge credit card bills and another baby. I believe Mediacorp has produced enough dramas for viewership...there must be some truth.

There are more effective ways to get a man to modify his behaviour than nagging and scolding....far more effective ways

[schweppes]

3Boys:

There are more effective ways to get a man to modify his behaviour than nagging and scolding....far more effective ways

haha... yes, must sayang, sayang the man

[duriz]

schweppes:

3Boys:

There are more effective ways to get a man to modify his behaviour than nagging and scolding....far more effective ways

haha... yes, must sayang, sayang the man

Yes.
But on the flip side.
Why was the wife nagging and scolding the husband?
Were there far more effective/loving ways for the husband to communicate and/or do what he did than to rile the wife up?
I'm sure all couples started out as super-sayng eachother one.
Why did it change/have to change?

[3Boys]

schweppes:

3Boys:

There are more effective ways to get a man to modify his behaviour than nagging and scolding....far more effective ways

haha... yes, must sayang, sayang the man

My wife has me wrapped around her pinky, and its not from nagging and scolding.....

[dunnoleh]

My wife has me wrapped around her pinky, and its not from nagging and scolding..... [/quote]wa, impressive!

I mean your wife la, not you!