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    What questions would you ask your child's future bf/gf?

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    • D Offline
      duriz
      last edited by

      verykiasu2010:
      what primary school were you from ?


      GEP or not ?

      what was your t-score ?

      which secondary school ? IP or not ? why not ?

      which uni ? which course ? honours ? master degree ?

      got scholarship ? which scholarship ?

      what job ? which company ? what position ? what pay ? how much bonus ?

      if civil service - which stat board / ministry ? which grade pay scale ? when to reach perm secr position ?

      how many children you like to have ? how soon ?

      breast feed or not ? for how long ?

      will stay with parents or not ?

      will look after old folks or not ? yes, why ? no, why ?


      alright, may be the list not exhaustive yet ?


      :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
      After asking about pay, forgot to ask about DISTRIBUTION.

      1. How much into savings?

      2. How much into DD's account/pocket (if interviewing potential SIL)?

      3. How much into recreation funds (vacays, dinners, movies etc)?

      4. How much into children's (if any) education funds?

      5. How much into misc (insurance, car, condo, maid etc)?

      6. MOST IMPORTANTLY, how much into \"funding of PILs\"?

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        verykiasu2010
        last edited by

        duriz


        :rotflmao:

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          corneyAmber
          last edited by

          verykiasu2010:
          ksi:

          [quote=\"verykiasu2010\"]
          i know i know...u oni need to tell us here :evil:

          Donch wan la...later become popular like PSLE exam.... :rotflmao: :siam:

          would you consider introducing DSA for your potential DIL / SIL ??[/quote]

          DSA no good leh....One should be put on the toes all the time in order to strive to do better.....so after the \"PSLE\" to be SIL, he will continue to have milestone tests when he becomes father to my grandkids etc....... :rotflmao:

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            markfch
            last edited by

            ChiefKiasu:
            markfch:

            I'll ask future DIL 'what's your KSP account name?'


            Then I'll know whether future DIL goes to the in-laws thread to complain about me or not :rotflmao: ...

            Don't worry, markfch, when the time arrives, we'll set up KiasuGrandParents.com just for you. That way you can complain all you like about your DILs, in vindication.

            Right, Chief. When the time comes, please ensure that the fonts are extra large cos my eyes will be failing me by then. Actually I'm already suffering from hyperopia so I'm using reading glasses while typing this.

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              jedamum
              last edited by

              markfch:

              Right, Chief. When the time comes, please ensure that the fonts are extra large cos my eyes will be failing me by then. Actually I'm already suffering from hyperopia so I'm using reading glasses while typing this.
              can use view--> zoom in function la....šŸ˜‰

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                duriz
                last edited by

                jedamum:
                markfch:


                Right, Chief. When the time comes, please ensure that the fonts are extra large cos my eyes will be failing me by then. Actually I'm already suffering from hyperopia so I'm using reading glasses while typing this.

                can use view--> zoom in function la....šŸ˜‰

                Or change the resolution on your pc/mac, gramps šŸ˜„

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                  Trapwithin
                  last edited by

                  duriz:
                  verykiasu2010:

                  what primary school were you from ?


                  GEP or not ?

                  what was your t-score ?

                  which secondary school ? IP or not ? why not ?

                  which uni ? which course ? honours ? master degree ?

                  got scholarship ? which scholarship ?

                  what job ? which company ? what position ? what pay ? how much bonus ?

                  if civil service - which stat board / ministry ? which grade pay scale ? when to reach perm secr position ?

                  how many children you like to have ? how soon ?

                  breast feed or not ? for how long ?

                  will stay with parents or not ?

                  will look after old folks or not ? yes, why ? no, why ?


                  alright, may be the list not exhaustive yet ?


                  :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

                  After asking about pay, forgot to ask about DISTRIBUTION.

                  1. How much into savings?

                  2. How much into DD's account/pocket (if interviewing potential SIL)?

                  3. How much into recreation funds (vacays, dinners, movies etc)?

                  4. How much into children's (if any) education funds?

                  5. How much into misc (insurance, car, condo, maid etc)?

                  6. MOST IMPORTANTLY, how much into \"funding of PILs\"?

                  If vk2010 and duriz are the future PIL, all Potential Candidate sure :siam:
                  More stress than their PSLE. O Level, A Level, etc :rotflmao:

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                    verykiasu2010
                    last edited by

                    I am very 'chin-chai' one


                    was just compiling the list based on what was said by fellow forumers on this thread :rotflmao:

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                      Trapwithin
                      last edited by

                      Nowsaday .. getting married is very very \"cheong\"

                      During my time, no proposal, no engagement, just get married.

                      Now .. No Diamond = No Proposal, then must have engagement, then must go oversea to do photoshoot, then must ...... etc AND before all that
                      the future PIL \"QUESTIONAIRE and INTERVIEW\" ... šŸ˜‰

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                        verykiasu2010
                        last edited by

                        Trapwithin:
                        Nowsaday .. getting married is very very \"cheong\"

                        During my time, no proposal, no engagement, just get married.

                        Now .. No Diamond = No Proposal, then must have engagement, then must go oversea to do photoshoot, then must ...... etc AND before all that
                        the future PIL \"QUESTIONAIRE and INTERVIEW\" ... šŸ˜‰
                        oooi, correction : it is panel interview

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