What questions would you ask your child's future bf/gf?

[corneyAmber]

verykiasu2010:

ksi:

[quote=\"verykiasu2010\"]
i know i know...u oni need to tell us here :evil:

Donch wan la...later become popular like PSLE exam.... :rotflmao: :siam:

would you consider introducing DSA for your potential DIL / SIL ??[/quote]

DSA no good leh....One should be put on the toes all the time in order to strive to do better.....so after the \"PSLE\" to be SIL, he will continue to have milestone tests when he becomes father to my grandkids etc....... :rotflmao:

[markfch]

ChiefKiasu:

markfch:

I'll ask future DIL 'what's your KSP account name?'


Then I'll know whether future DIL goes to the in-laws thread to complain about me or not :rotflmao: ...

Don't worry, markfch, when the time arrives, we'll set up KiasuGrandParents.com just for you. That way you can complain all you like about your DILs, in vindication.

Right, Chief. When the time comes, please ensure that the fonts are extra large cos my eyes will be failing me by then. Actually I'm already suffering from hyperopia so I'm using reading glasses while typing this.

[jedamum]

markfch:

Right, Chief. When the time comes, please ensure that the fonts are extra large cos my eyes will be failing me by then. Actually I'm already suffering from hyperopia so I'm using reading glasses while typing this.

can use view--> zoom in function la....

[duriz]

jedamum:

markfch:

Right, Chief. When the time comes, please ensure that the fonts are extra large cos my eyes will be failing me by then. Actually I'm already suffering from hyperopia so I'm using reading glasses while typing this.

can use view--> zoom in function la....

Or change the resolution on your pc/mac, gramps

[Trapwithin]

duriz:

verykiasu2010:

what primary school were you from ?


GEP or not ?

what was your t-score ?

which secondary school ? IP or not ? why not ?

which uni ? which course ? honours ? master degree ?

got scholarship ? which scholarship ?

what job ? which company ? what position ? what pay ? how much bonus ?

if civil service - which stat board / ministry ? which grade pay scale ? when to reach perm secr position ?

how many children you like to have ? how soon ?

breast feed or not ? for how long ?

will stay with parents or not ?

will look after old folks or not ? yes, why ? no, why ?


alright, may be the list not exhaustive yet ?


:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

After asking about pay, forgot to ask about DISTRIBUTION.

1. How much into savings?

2. How much into DD's account/pocket (if interviewing potential SIL)?

3. How much into recreation funds (vacays, dinners, movies etc)?

4. How much into children's (if any) education funds?

5. How much into misc (insurance, car, condo, maid etc)?

6. MOST IMPORTANTLY, how much into \"funding of PILs\"?

If vk2010 and duriz are the future PIL, all Potential Candidate sure :siam:
More stress than their PSLE. O Level, A Level, etc :rotflmao:

[verykiasu2010]

I am very 'chin-chai' one


was just compiling the list based on what was said by fellow forumers on this thread :rotflmao:

[Trapwithin]

Nowsaday .. getting married is very very \"cheong\"

During my time, no proposal, no engagement, just get married.

Now .. No Diamond = No Proposal, then must have engagement, then must go oversea to do photoshoot, then must ...... etc AND before all that
the future PIL \"QUESTIONAIRE and INTERVIEW\" ...

[verykiasu2010]

Trapwithin:

Nowsaday .. getting married is very very \"cheong\"

During my time, no proposal, no engagement, just get married.

Now .. No Diamond = No Proposal, then must have engagement, then must go oversea to do photoshoot, then must ...... etc AND before all that
the future PIL \"QUESTIONAIRE and INTERVIEW\" ...

oooi, correction : it is panel interview

[duriz]

verykiasu2010:

I am very 'chin-chai' one


was just compiling the list based on what was said by fellow forumers on this thread :rotflmao:

I was only jumping on the fun bandwagon.
I don't think having a list of ideals is ideal.

[duriz]

Realistically, it’s a long ways before I will meet with DD’s beau.


She is only one year young.

As her mother, I’ll be happy that she is loved and cherished by this man.

All the other things will be between him and her, and rightfully so.
It’s their lives.

If they are old enough to marry, they’ll know how to do the rest.

Allow them to "live and learn" like the rest of us.

And because we live in a real world, I would ask him "Can you afford to marry/her? How do you know?"

But most importantly, I would ask the both of them "When things are not going well, do you know any penny-pinching methods? Can you advocate and stick to them (and eachother) until things get better?"

I think adversity quotient is more important than emotional quotient.