In-law problems?

[auntieM]

Hi janet_lee88,

She met BIL working in Beijing and moved in couple of weeks later. When my BIL wants out she got pregnant…
She had wedding dinner with a 6-month preggy tummy and MIL made her wear white… …
They lived in Beijing for couple years then BIL was down with cancer and they head back for treatment…
Then loads and loads of dramas… …
After my BIL passed on she was the ‘tai tai’ for a short while, leaving her boy to the maid and movin to Bukit Timah…
She was down with cancer at 33 years of age and went back to Beijing about 4 years ago with her son…

I was only preggie when nephew was about 3 years old…
MIL has 2 grandsons, but I seriously think she’d rather they, or we don’t exist at all… …

[buds]

auntieM... my condolences.


You may not have been close to them..
But at least now one less drama has ended for you.. :snuggles:

[auntieM]

buds:

auntieM... my condolences.


You may not have been close to them..
But at least now one less drama has ended for you.. :snuggles:

Thanks buds.. :hugs:
You are so right about the lesser drama.. ..
Pity my nephew though.. lose both parents to cancer, both sides grandparents well and fit but nobody wants him..

[buds]

Yes... the poor dearie, really.

[janet88]

auntieM:

buds:

auntieM... my condolences.


You may not have been close to them..
But at least now one less drama has ended for you.. :snuggles:

Thanks buds.. :hugs:
You are so right about the lesser drama.. ..
Pity my nephew though.. lose both parents to cancer, both sides grandparents well and fit but nobody wants him..

So sad that the boy is an orphan so young.

[janet88]

BB cream:

Jus wanna share my story, I not in the good terms with my sil. My elder sil has been staying with us since she is divorce. 2 years back when I gave birth to my boy, she keep on bringing her new bf back to my hse to stay, I hv a feeling she will told her mum tat she will say want to move in with her once she re-married. Really, she -say she want 2 move in, but I hv stop her by creating a big fight. But after she married, she purposely bought the flat jus beside me. Really pissed me off, she even talk bad about me to my inlaw & hubby that I give her black face but she ok with it as not everyone has a big heart. Then I can sense my mil start giving me black face & say I disrespect her as I never welcome her precious daughter. I feel so sad, my mil have been staying with me for 10 overs hrs, I have been respecting her but in the end I being label as the bad person.

Would you like to transfer your post to 'in-laws' ?

[BB cream]

okie, no problem, pls do so

[Mrs Ang]

janet_lee88:

KSmom8:

Just can't stand their remarks, they will say stuff like \"I told you not to have wooden flooring, why did you do it?\" ... after the renovation is complete and the wooden floor installed. Of course, before the renovation, they will tell me a list of what I should do. How to respond to that kind of remark without being rude? Silently, I'm yelling \"it's my house and my choice what flooring I want, don't interfere.

I know what you mean...I had comments passed about my kitchen door, toilet doors...crap she said like, 'This type of door with glass, so hard to clean. Why make this kind of door ?' In my heart I am screaming...did I ask you to clean ? I'm the one paying for renovation. Never asked you for any comments either.

Understand both your feelings.....my mil passed remarks on my toilet paper holder too....she said, \"Why so difficult to install?\" I just don't bother to answer.

[Mrs Ang]

janet_lee88:

Mine here loves to pass remarks on everything. Which is why I don't invite them over...what for? To hear more crap?

Haha....mine will come uninvited and uninformed. My DH finally tell his mum to call before coming and she is unhappy and commented why we so troublesome!! :x

[Mrs Ang]

janet_lee88:

auntieM:

[quote=\"buds\"]auntieM... my condolences.


You may not have been close to them..
But at least now one less drama has ended for you.. :snuggles:

Thanks buds.. :hugs:
You are so right about the lesser drama.. ..
Pity my nephew though.. lose both parents to cancer, both sides grandparents well and fit but nobody wants him..

So sad that the boy is an orphan so young.[/quote]Sad...the boy is so young and nobody wants him.