Gang members hold sex and drug orgies at chalets
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arggghhhh....... :yikes: :scared: :sick: cannot take it.
wonder will I be able to let go next time......arrrrhhhhh :faint: -
do a spot check from a distance n call at the same time?
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I think I sure park one corner and spy on my gal next time she go chalet... and give those little ahbengs a piece of my mind :mad: :xedfingers:
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bonding is impt. how to ensure that our kids are truthful to us?
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From primary school, I instituted one rule, and made clear that it would not be lifted until after 18 years. I explained why. Talked about birds and bees and rape and everything. Showed them newspaper reports of such shenanigans. Looked at close-up photos of pathogens that causes chlamydia and syphilis… etc… I gained the agreement of my small children then… once they agree and an expectation is formed, less problems later.
RULE: No sleepovers. Everyone must come home to spend the night.
My girl asked about 3 times to go to chalet camps. I said no and it wasn’t a big issue because she already knew what the rule was, and it was quite easy to monitor that the rule is not broken. -
Daddy
I think I sure park one corner and spy on my gal next time she go chalet... and give those little ahbengs a piece of my mind :mad: :xedfingers:
these ah bengs may be from 369 also :yikes: -
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Yup. That's how I plan to do it too. Even if it's all girls, there's no stopping one of the girls to invite boys or for boys from chalets to befriend the group. But bottomline is that no overnight stay outsideFrom primary school, I instituted one rule, and made clear that it would not be lifted until after 18 years. I explained why. Talked about birds and bees and rape and everything. Showed them newspaper reports of such shenanigans. Looked at close-up photos of pathogens that causes chlamydia and syphilis.... etc... I gained the agreement of my small children then... once they agree and an expectation is formed, less problems later.
RULE: No sleepovers. Everyone must come home to spend the night.
My girl asked about 3 times to go to chalet camps. I said no and it wasn't a big issue because she already knew what the rule was, and it was quite easy to monitor that the rule is not broken. -
Last Sat, we had a family debate after dinner about whether teenagers should go steady in BGR. We had a great time putting forth our views. Got to see my son’s (14) values on the matter and it also was a subtle way to get him to understand what we parents view as standards for the family without being preachy.
I think, trust and communication is very important. I think we can’t protect them from perversion (there’s plenty from the web) or meeting people with immoral behavior, but if we can cultivate the right morals in their head, they’ll know when to stay away, walk away, or not indulge in it. Rules can sometime backfire or make the forbidden fruit sweeter. If they want to hanky panky, they can do it anywhere, anytime, no need to be chalet. -
Sigh… worrying this…
if this is the trend and it’s not checked, i can foresee it getting worse, and more widespread too. dread to think what will it be like when DD gets to 15-16 yo… -
Maybe parents can also book a chalet next to them. Then can spy on them.
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