How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?

[smartmummy]

i was looking forward this topic.Topday i found.Happpy

[flyfree]

My spouse & myself hv not been performing our "obligatory duties" since last yr. is it "abnormal or unhealthy" in a relationship?

[3Boys]

flyfree:

My spouse & myself hv not been performing our \"obligatory duties\" since last yr. is it \"abnormal or unhealthy\" in a relationship?

Hi, I think only you and your spouse can really answer that question. If one or both of you feel somethin lacking, frustration, then you probably need to work on it. Also, it is my belief that physical intimacy, whilst not necessarily the most important part of the marriage, is a cornerstone and helps strengthen the relationship between an man and woman greatly.

[Angelight]

How do I maintain my relationship with my DH?

- by not taking him for granted
- by sharing with him what is in my heart
- by showing him concern and affection
- by telling him once in a while that I can't live without him...

Men need all these from their wives: to be loved, cherished, appreciated and needed. Women too.

[Learning Dad]

flyfree:

My spouse & myself hv not been performing our \"obligatory duties\" since last yr. is it \"abnormal or unhealthy\" in a relationship?

I believe that it is important not to think of your \"obligatory duties\" as obligatory. Sometimes the way we use our language impacts the way we think. If we think of 'duties' as obligatory, naturally over time we will feel that it becomes a chore instead of shared joy.

[Eagle-Ladybird]

sorry what is "BF" ??

[ZacK]

Eagle-Ladybird:

sorry what is \"BF\" ??

Breast-Feeding? Cos there is mention of a second addition to the family I presume...

[jimmyb]

I think the best way to maintain a good relationship with your partner is constant open communication. You should be able to talk and work things out.


Also a good tip would probably be when to get out of the way and understand. I know it would be heard just to keep mum about an issue you know you have a say on but adding fuel to the fire is not going to solve any problem.

Though after the heat has cooled down, you can then start explaining your point in the talk.

[Castle House]

Trust


Open communnication

Never take the other party’s for granted

Share and care…

Respect not only him but the family included…

[LOLMum]

husband and wife must know how to 撒娇. dont always adopt an attack or defence stand.