NUS High School of Mathematics and Science (Diploma)

[sally]

Jennifer:

sally:

He make it.

Congrats

Thank. Still has to do well in PSLE.

Wish all P6 students do well in the Oral tmw and Fri.

I agreed with kohjl. I also prepared to tell him whatever news from NUSH bscos his classmate will ask him.

[Jennifer]

kohjl:

I decided to tell my son cos I didn't want him to face tomorrow alone in school when other children discuss who got in and who didn't. And my son will be wondering whether he got in or not, and may be distracted during Oral.

kohjl, thanks for this reminder. It completely slipped my mind.

Some time ago, I read that NUSH is looking for pupils who hv bn consistently doing well in their sch exams. I then talked to #1 about the possibility of being unsuccessful since his sch results has taken dips due to his careless mistakes. The day after the camp, he also told us he did not feel confident.

He is not back from sch yet. Would tell him after his lunch.

[turquoise]

sally:

Hi

He make it.

Yes, you are right, sometime negative result might not mean bad. For my boy when he was not selected by RI for the selection test he told us that he will study hard and score well in the PSLE to approve RI that they make a mistake of not giving him a chance for the selection test. And he has been focusing in his revision for the past 1 month and now he said that he hope to make it for the EEIS Scholarship..

I believe that your boy will do well in his PSLE.

Congrats Sally! I like the positive attitude of your son. Good for him!
I'm surprised RI didn't shortlist him for the selection test. Did he get an SMOPS gold or platinum award? You and your son must be so happy and relieved.

[sally]

turquoise:

Congrats Sally! I like the positive attitude of your son. Good for him!

I'm surprised RI didn't shortlist him for the selection test. Did he get an SMOPS gold or platinum award? You and your son must be so happy and relieved.

Thank.

He only won silver and hv no CCA. Relieved - Yes & No bcos PSLE coming.

[Fairy]

sally:

Hi


He make it.

Yes, you are right, sometime negative result might not mean bad. For my boy when he was not selected by RI for the selection test he told us that he will study hard and score well in the PSLE to approve RI that they make a mistake of not giving him a chance for the selection test. And he has been focusing in his revision for the past 1 month and now he said that he hope to make it for the EEIS Scholarship..
I believe that your boy will do well in his PSLE.

How I envy those of you with a child so self motivated and matured in his thinking!

I am very sad , I have been patiently waiting for my daughter to 'wake up' from her nonchalance towards such an important milestone in her life. Until today, she is not willing to put in effort in her study....she continues to take long afternoon naps and did not make any effort to revise for the PSLE, only doing school homework. Even then, she would be very restless and 'can't sit still' and continue to make very very careless mistakes that goes to show she is not focus when doing the work. :x
All the nagging & 'counselling' from us fall on deaf ears. :stupid:

There must really be something not right in my parenting style. Perhaps, I have been too laissez faire in the management of my kids. It's only about 1 month to PSLE...Though blessed with intelligence, she did not make good use of it, sigh...God only help those who help themselves.

[daisyt]

Fairy:

How I envy those of you with a child so self motivated and matured in his thinking!


I am very sad , I have been patiently waiting for my daughter to 'wake up' from her nonchalance towards such an important milestone in her life. Until today, she is not willing to put in effort in her study....she continues to take long afternoon naps and did not make any effort to revise for the PSLE, only doing school homework. Even then, she would be very restless and 'can't sit still' and continue to make very very careless mistakes that goes to show she is not focus when doing the work. :x
All the nagging & 'counselling' from us fall on deaf ears. :stupid:

There must really be something not right in my parenting style. Perhaps, I have been too laissez faire in the management of my kids. It's only about 1 month to PSLE...Though blessed with intelligence, she did not make good use of it, sigh...God only help those who help themselves.

Hi Fiary, don't be sad. I don't think there is anything wrong with your parenting style. Just that different kids mature at different timing. Maybe with her relax mood, she can excel better .... I have heard of kids so stress in PSLE that mind block and black out. I have also seen quite a number of my girl's classmates, all the while doing very well but drop in PSLE. Look at the brighter side ... I have also met a guy, he was in neighbourhood secondary school, excel well and got into NUS, major in Math.

Don't just think that top sec schools are good, you need to look at the other side too. Stress level is super high, work load is very heavy. The most important the chid is happy. You can PM me if you want to find out more .... I am very willing to share with you. Don't blame yourself or your child. Smile !!

[Fairy]

daisyt:

Hi Fiary, don't be sad. I don't think there is anything wrong with your parenting style. Just that different kids mature at different timing. Maybe with her relax mood, she can excel better .... I have heard of kids so stress in PSLE that mind block and black out. I have also seen quite a number of my girl's classmates, all the while doing very well but drop in PSLE. Look at the brighter side ... I have also met a guy, he was in neighbourhood secondary school, excel well and got into NUS, major in Math.


Don't just think that top sec schools are good, you need to look at the other side too. Stress level is super high, work load is very heavy. The most important the chid is happy. You can PM me if you want to find out more .... I am very willing to share with you. Don't blame yourself or your child. Smile !!

Hi daisyt,

Thank you so much for the consolling words. If she ever 'wakes' up from her 'can't be bothered' mode and start studying hard in the next 1 month, you'll be the first one I'll share the good news with. :lol: Meanwhile, I'll and hope for a miracle.

[daisyt]

Fairy:

Hi daisyt,


Thank you so much for the consolling words. If she ever 'wakes' up from her 'can't be bothered' mode and start studying hard in the next 1 month, you'll be the first one I'll share the good news with. :lol: Meanwhile, I'll and hope for a miracle.

No problem. Although my girl did not go through DSA last year, but last year this time till end of Dec, was the most stressful period in my life ! I don't think I can forget .... haha I waiting for your good news !

[kirakira]

Fairy:

I am very sad , I have been patiently waiting for my daughter to 'wake up' from her nonchalance towards such an important milestone in her life. Until today, she is not willing to put in effort in her study....she continues to take long afternoon naps and did not make any effort to revise for the PSLE, only doing school homework. Even then, she would be very restless and 'can't sit still' and continue to make very very careless mistakes that goes to show she is not focus when doing the work. :x
All the nagging & 'counselling' from us fall on deaf ears. :stupid:

There must really be something not right in my parenting style. Perhaps, I have been too laissez faire in the management of my kids. It's only about 1 month to PSLE...Though blessed with intelligence, she did not make good use of it, sigh...God only help those who help themselves.

So similar to my situation!

I've been 'counselling' my son since mid of p5 and counting down the months, now weeks, and he is still just waiting to play football.. at school
and at home.

Your emoticons reflect exactly how I feel. As the date draws near, the feelings are so intense, right? Yet they are still chin chin chye chye.
At least yours is doing her school work. Mine has alot of school work not done!

I too have been thinking if I have been too laissez fair. He had a very easy time up to p4, not even assessment books or school papers. And now when he needs to put in the effort they are not used to it. You mentioned she is intelligent - this is one possible downside to intelligence esp when they are in mainstream. My son is also bright but the attitude isn't quite there.

Not just myself, his school teachers are also waiting and hoping he'll mature in time for PSLE!

There is also the hormones at this stage. It partly explains why some of them are like that. For my son, he has always been playful and not very motivated at school.

So you are not alone. Someone here is going through exactly the same as you. It is true that not all mature at the same time, but the problem is in Singapore, it determines many things e.g. which sec school. Altho some are successful in neighbourhood schools, we know that being in a school surrounded with motivated kids are better for them.

We really need to pray. There is so much we can do. They have to take it up from there. It is hard, isn't it!?

[Jennifer]

#1 had taken the bad new quite well.


Now there is a yo-yo craze in school. I just told him off for spending his free time playing with a makeshift yo-yo he came up with using lego parts. I hv seen him playing it in the afternoon, after dinner and now before sleeping. He rebuked that he had already finished his sch work. I asked him if he knows he is not going to score A* just by completing sch assigned work and nothing extras. I think it hit a spot and now he has gone to bed grudgingly.

Kids being smart but not motivated is a deadly prescription for parents :x