Extra Marital Affair

[Andaiz]

Hmmmm....seems like a straying spouse would always stray!

MLR:

Till today I still think about him and ofthen wonder whether I did the right thing by telling his wife.

MLR, I think you did the right thing :hugs: by HINTING to her of his indiscretion. :love: :love: It was entirely her choice as far as the following actions were concerned. How had she been after that? Do you know?

[mintcc]

I think you absolutely did the right thing MLR. This fellow have far too many chances and is unrepentant.

[cmm]

MLR:

Till today I still think about him and ofthen wonder whether I did the right thing by telling his wife.

I think you did the right thing, MLR. I would have done the same....

[Busymom]

:shock:


Is that daddy a married man?

[Busymom]

Yes, you really should :nunchuk: :heresmyfish:


Somemore at the son's school - most unbecoming!

Just curious, is your teacher a local or non-local?

[Honey]

And totally no respect, no regard for his wife at all!!! I am sure his wife has dealings with the school as well like fetching son to school or bringing son home or has to come to the school for other functions too. Oh dear, wonder how is she going to face the teachers or school if she has any wind of it?! I certainly do not tolerate this kind of behaviour but I have heard of a saying "If want to fool around, also must go further lah".

[mintcc]

really feel sorry for the wife and son… hianz.

[Windy]

Poor child has to be withdrawn bec of the father. Any other alternative? Maybe inform the wife about the incident, so that he will not dare to do it again. Or hint him indirectly that he had been reported by your teacher about the incident and hope it will not happen again. :idea:

[skunk]

insider:

No men are allowed in my centres' toilet, even if a dad says want to bring her own daughter to the toilet. Sound unreasonable but that's my policy.

men are such sad creatures, victims of their own doing.

[cmm]

insider:

I will meet him today to tell him I know about his invitations to my teacher and that I take it as a harassment.


......Probably he will deny, etc, etc, and say want to talk to teacher with more time about the son but I will make a stand that I can't accept and get him to withdraw child himself.

Hope he will wake up and know that his own actions will affect his child (but I doubt so coz this kind of man don't have blain...) and not to repeat the same in another centre....

PS: I admit that I am kiasi and I don't take chances in this kind of situation at all. Better be safe than sorry...

Possible to re-consider before \"forcing\" the child to be withdrawn?

After all, it is no fault of the child's and would affect the child (uproot, torn away from his friends/teachers, plonked into new environment and have to get used to new friends/teachers, routine, etc, etc... all over again)

Perhaps tell the father plainly that you are aware of the \"advances\" he made to your teacher and that they are not welcome and to pls not do it ever again else consequences will follow....

Insider Jie, pls dun stone me for this... What the father of the child did was indeed deplorable. Just felt sorry for the poor child