Club SAHM

[peapot]

Janet, my kid can read well but her maths still sucks.

[ectanz]

janet_lee88:

Hi Ladies,

Need to vent my frustrations a little...patience reached the max :nunchuk:

2 kids made so much noise...older one seemed to have forgotten SA2 round the corner, sat on the chair and refused to get his tuition work done :mad: Younger one was up to her nonsense. Hubby sat in front of the damn computer...supposed to coach daughter in her Math but was glued to the chair whole day while I was attending to son. Or else he switched on the TV when daughter was supposed to learn her ting xie.
Can't wait for Monday.

Hi Janet, no difference for my case. I need to work thru 7 days, no rest day worst than a maid. I was sick last week being spread by my dd2 - stomach flu. Although sick but still need to take care of my both dds. Hb either traveling or can't handle both of them.

Imagine not feeling well, still need to coach my dd1 on her spelling test and math hm while trying to stop dd2 from crawling all over the places :frustrated:

[janet88]

MummyThreeStreams:

Janet,


Only 12 more hours till Monday! :rahrah: Hang in there! Go watch some TV after the kids go to bed.

Working people say TGIF. Only SAHMs will say TGIM!

Absolutely agree :hi5: SAHMs don't look forward to weekends. Not with the craziness of the kids AND hubby at home :faint:

[kids_r_innocent]

janet_lee88:

Hi Ladies,

Need to vent my frustrations a little...patience reached the max :nunchuk:

2 kids made so much noise...older one seemed to have forgotten SA2 round the corner, sat on the chair and refused to get his tuition work done :mad: Younger one was up to her nonsense. Hubby sat in front of the damn computer...supposed to coach daughter in her Math but was glued to the chair whole day while I was attending to son. Or else he switched on the TV when daughter was supposed to learn her ting xie.
Can't wait for Monday.

It's Monday! Sayang u for the hard work during the wkends.... :snuggles:

[kids_r_innocent]

ectanz:

Hi Janet, no difference for my case. I need to work thru 7 days, no rest day worst than a maid. I was sick last week being spread by my dd2 - stomach flu. Although sick but still need to take care of my both dds. Hb either traveling or can't handle both of them.

Imagine not feeling well, still need to coach my dd1 on her spelling test and math hm while trying to stop dd2 from crawling all over the places :frustrated:

I can empathize with ur situation... These r the days when we hope our kids will grow up soon so that they can take care of themselves. Hang on there! N hope u r much better too! :hugs:

[MummyThreeStreams]

ectanz,

Poor you! You’re a really dedicated mom! YouR husband and kids are fortunate to have you. On days when I’m sick, I’ll just let things go. Dun care whether anyone has spelling, or if there’s laundry to be done. Can’t curl up in bed, but I’ll lie on the sofa awhile the kids play in the living room. Getting up only to do basic caregiving.

[janet88]

Hi SAHmums,

I’m so relieved it’s MONDAY again. With kids in school and husband at work, I’m breathing normally now. I was so mad I threatened to walk out. Towards the night, I kept quiet and pretended NOT to see anything.

[LLX04]

Dear Janet & ectanz,

Can really empathize with u all cos sometimes I felt that way too. Glad there is a SAHM club for us to vent and share our frustrations. Guess we need an overdue break!

[indigoblue]

:rahrah:

~~cheers!~~

[smartmummy]

Hi to all SAHMs!


:salute: :salute:
:grphug:

last nite I also frustrated and came to SAHM thread and saw Janet's post.I tried to write,then my Dh arrived then I closed.

Usually his duty at home, sleep,eat,surf net. Recently another duty added.JBrisk walking(BW).Morning 2 hrs and evening two hours.

I planned to go out with him so I asked him when he wake up from his bed, \"can we go out?\".He said after I jogged.I said its getting late.He said for one hr.Then I said ok.He said u get dress up I will come.He went for 6.30 pm and came 8.30 pm.

before in the afternoon he went out.so I asked him to buy soap powder to wash cloths.He didn't buy.

I just :mad: :mad: at 8.30.I needed to wash my kids uniforms to school.

I don't know what he think of a family is. Many times I remind him a family bonding is important.
I just sick and tired for keep all this nonsence(wht he will going to do) in my mind.I know this will happen.he will come after two hrs.If I believe him a day i will get dissapoint definitely.Why he can't change??
He never think of changing himself.He has a room for rest,have food to eat,dress for wear. :imcool: no worries to taking care of kids or role model for kids. :slapshead: :slapshead:

He always sleep/lie down on the bed at home whenever at home.It is a good role model for my son to be lazy to study.He doesn't like to play with kids at home.

I need to think,plan and force him to do everything.
I always wonder does he alone or has anyone in this world?

You mummies proved to me some more people have.

When I complained him why didn't you buy?He asked me back why you didn't buy?I didn't expect is going to finish.So its my responsblity to stock everything. :slapshead: I wonder why he can't do when emergencies.I always told even I'm going to die I need to do everything.cos i was sick also he asked me to do.

He think that SAHM has more time than him.he didn't understand that what a difficult job.Especially taking care of kids whole day.If I didn't expect him we go after lunch.He can't come that time cos his nap time.

So I need to buy all and do all house work,etc,etc.So what he for???
earning money?Yes,He proudly said that.I reminded him,the kids happy with ur time not with money.He just nod the head whtever I said.Next time NO change.

Now I reminded myself doesn't expect from him anything.I just plan everything and make him to do.