Need an advice on office relationship matters

[mamago]

Joule, please help translate…

[KSP]

valvestate:

4. They are attractive... very. I mean for my taste.

wah!!! sounds like miss universe... put her FB pics here leh... 独乐乐，不如众乐乐。。。

valvestate:

:yikes: this is like an alcohol you know. Bad for your help, bad for beer belly... but it makes you happy and feel great for a short while.

I'll see if I can make an alibi later...

this is what i called 愿者上钩。。。。

[MMM]

Think about it, what is more important to you??? Whatever you do, pls think of the consequences before the temptations.


Your job? Your family or the woman that you kept fantisizing about??? Just imagine what happens if you lose your job as a result of this affair? Will you still think of that woman? What happens if in a moment of folly you did something wrong and your wife knows about it? She will probably be very very angry, stop trusting and maybe wants to divorce you??? Meanwhile for the girl, do you think she is happy to treat as though nothing happened??? What if something happened and she demands more and more??? Is that what you want?

Having said that always remember people around the both of you (your colleagues) are not blind. It will soon become very obvious and people might speculate/ gossip. Is that what you want from a professional POV? If not, it’s better to steer clear now and don’t leave a bad name for yourself.

Also, try inviting other colleagues to have lunch together.

[snowball]

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

[valvestate]

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

[snowball]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

1)\"this will be the last time\" means, last time to lunch with her alone?
2) \" it's a good sign\" what make u think so ?

in my opinion, it is clear sign that you MUST avoid to be with her alone , if you have to, get your colleague to join.... :siam:

[Sun_2010]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

Oh Oh, you are now clutching at the straws . Once the mind starts giving excuses it is time to take some stern action. Otherwise it is a matter of time before things spiral out of control.

Not many get to choose our pains in life. If you dont act now, you are choosing immense pain for not only yourself but for all parties involved.

A man's ego doesnt help, i suppose. Just remind your self, the strength needed to overcome this attraction is far more than the physical strength a man is so proud of.

So take charge. Tomorrow, if needed make it no lunch, or lunch at desk, a stomach upset, whatever, but NO lunch with the lady pls :nunchuk:

you remind me of a journal , written so long ago, sigh, must dig it up and read it ...

[3Boys]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

Brudder....Run For The Door!

She knows you are married with a kid and yet she skirts the sly side of flirtation with you....what does that say about her mentality? Yeah she talks about your wife. All that says is that she knows you are married and doesn't give two hoots.

Don't cave in to the home wrecker...SERIOUSLY...that is the end game, a WRECKED home.

If you really find yourself on the cusp of temptation, then, go back tonight and tell your wife immediately about this PRC lady flirting with you in the office. When she has finished pounding you into the ground, you can take her hand and profess everlasting love, and you will be innoculated from any further straying thoughts.

[Joule]

mamago:

Joule, please help translate....

悬崖勒马， 回头是岸

it means

悬崖勒马
your 'horse' is rushing towards a cliff

回头是岸
do a u-turn now! it is safer behind you at the shore

basically

beware the cliff, repent and be saved

[straffan23]

This is so funny! Well, I suppose if someone knows something might go wrong is actually a great big step to solving the problem?


I joke (share) with my husband all the time - who and who asked for my phone number, asked me out for a movie :evil: it usually end up in the similar fashion - \"Got extra tickets for my children?\" \"Don't think hubby will find it amusing if I go on a date!\" :rotflmao:

I agree. Flattery and having our ego polished feels damn good. But just laugh about it (with your wife, hopefully!) and move on. There are too many \"what if\", but the fact is that we are married, with loyalty and trust being the foundation of every marriage. In good times and bad. :imanangel:

:nunchuk: Think of it this way - temptation happens on both men and women. How would you like your wife to react to temptation, is how you should react to it now :evil: