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    In-law problems?

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    • B Offline
      buds
      last edited by

      smurf:
      Heyya Buds,


      Sorry, dunno how to comfort you (not good in words), but :hugs: to you. Stay strong!
      I will. For myself and my girls. Thank you. :hugs:

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        rocklee
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        Dear Buds


        Whatever drastic move you gonna make next, I hope you can find peace and happiness. You truly deserve it. All the best! Now I dedicate this song to you \" Ming Tian Hui Gen Hao!\"

        Cheers πŸ˜„

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          buds
          last edited by

          Buds is not without compassion. I can compromise if the conditions are

          right. Buds is not a hard nut to crack. Buds is just one who survives on
          the simple pleasures and happiness life brings. Money we can slowly
          find... but happiness, love and family life has to be built from scratch.
          And if these matters to him, he'll try his darnest best this time round
          to prove he really wants this. Chances that he has asked for has bn
          given... now only time can tell if he is dead serious about this new life
          he has always been talking about of late... about starting afresh for us
          (me and the girls)... about renewing what we already have and making
          it stronger... making it more solid foundation to see through the even
          more challenging future.

          We MUST be together in mind, spirit and actions to see this through. So
          far it has mostly been just me. To not abuse this final chance, i've given
          a deadline to adhere to. No more hanky pankies and late submission of
          assignment. Wanna pass? Make it work! (Influence by Tim Gunn from
          Project Runway) :lol:

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            buds
            last edited by

            rocklee:
            Dear Buds


            Whatever drastic move you gonna make next, I hope you can find peace and happiness. You truly deserve it. All the best! Now I dedicate this song to you \" Ming Tian Hui Gen Hao!\"

            Cheers πŸ˜„
            Xie xie..

            Yi Ting Hui De! :celebrate:

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              Funz
              last edited by

              Hey Buds,


              Sorry to hear that you are going through such tough times again.

              Hope budhubs buck up and not waste any more opportunities given to him.

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                buds
                last edited by

                lovekidsverymuch:
                Hey Buds wats ur hubs saying for all this wats his reaction?

                I can see he IS indeed working things out. πŸ˜‰

                But not decisive enough yet.

                He just backed out on a place we have just viewed
                a few nites ago despite oredi stamping THAT was
                the one. When he wanted to crawl his way out of
                that deal, i just held his hand and said, \"I'm with u.\"
                Though it was hard for me to say it. This is one
                decision i don't want to make for myself. It's a big
                one hence it has to be an affirmative decision from
                both of us. I don't want to bear the bane of it resting
                on my shoulders.

                DD2 was sad that the deal didn't go through and thought
                it was her fault, cos we asked her what she thought. She
                thought the deal was cancelled cos of what she said. My
                poor DD. I assured her it will NEVER be her fault. She just
                says, \"I just want the 4 of us to be together.\" To that, i
                replied, \"Me too sweetie... me too..\" God knows how much
                i want this to work. That night she went to bed praying God
                will help the agent find a better house than the one cancelled
                so that our small family can be together.

                Ok... now you all can go weep. I oredi did..

                Chowz guys.. going to send DD2 to school now. Catcha guys
                later.. Thanks for all the PMs and the inputs, the different
                perspectives, the strength, the candour... everything.

                These keeps me going more than you know.. stay with me k.

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                  buds
                  last edited by

                  Funz:
                  Hey Buds,


                  Sorry to hear that you are going through such tough times again.
                  Yeh boi.. AGAIN is quite the word ain't it. :lol:
                  Funz:
                  Hope budhubs buck up and not waste any more opportunities given to him.
                  He better not. I'm already job searching and interviewing and that
                  gives him the creeps. :rotflmao: I'm independent and i want him to
                  remember that i don't necessarily need a man to live this life. Hehe.
                  But the sex part i need him lar.. :rotflmao: But focus.. focus... thats
                  not what's important now. :lol:

                  He is a very good man. Just too indecisive when it comes to us. And
                  this time i want to see the decisive MAN in him. To us. πŸ™

                  He is not perfect. Nobody is. But he IS perfect for me. I do hope i am
                  for him too. Only time will tell huh.. I'm :xedfingers: I guess i too
                  underestimated how much love i had for him and this marriage.

                  Do know, that beneath this hard exterior i'm putting up right now...
                  deep inside i do want this to work out. 10 years doesn't amount up
                  to nothing. It took me a lot to get here.. so it means a lot. To me at
                  least. Let's see how things pan out... tick tock... tick tock...

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                    buds
                    last edited by

                    lovekidsverymuch:
                    Yeah really weeping reading all this but i really really pray everything works out and u and gals are happier πŸ™

                    Believe me, i am πŸ™ too.

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                      shine_fs
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                      buds:
                      lovekidsverymuch:

                      Yeah really weeping reading all this but i really really pray everything works out and u and gals are happier πŸ™


                      Believe me, i am πŸ™ too.

                      As we are all third parties....normally we εŠε’ŒδΈεŠη¦»γ€‚γ€‚γ€‚
                      πŸ™ for you too....

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                        minnie2004
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                        Hi buds,


                        It is obvious from your posts that you and your hubs love each other very much. Hope everything will work out fine for you guys. Love will conquer all - including all the evIL forces. :nunchuk: I fully support your decision to move out, which should have been done 10 years ago. It's worth it even if it means you have to go back to work again.

                        btw, my little boy couldn't take his eyes off your avatar as I was going thru this thread. he kept saying \"banana - peel - wah!\" again and again. It's so funny! :lol:

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