Adoption
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phtthp:
did you try IUI or IVF method ... better than adoption, bec it's your own genes ?AdonciaTang:
Haha true true. Was thinking of adopting a young girl too. Have been trying for a daughter but no results.
Sorry, i don't believe in adoption, maybe because of my friend's case.
Years ago, my friend adopted a baby girl from China.
when she grew up, she brought her lots of pain, heartache, grievances, sorrow ... defiant, stubborn, disobedient. In the end, my friend died from cancer.
doesn't mean own children will not grow up that way -
AdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
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Jennifer:
That is very noble of you.AdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
:udawoman:
you'll be blessed ! -
Very happy to read that you have thought/talked through with your dh and have decided to love the girl as your own. I wish you and your new family unit all the best. :snuggles:
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Thank You everyone!
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AdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
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HopeandSorrows:
thank you. now applying to the family court n doing all other procedures, hope she can come and stay w us before CNYAdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
:udawoman: :udawoman: ε₯½δΌε€§οΌ
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How old is the girl?
How many kids do you already have?
Juz curious.
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Nebbermind:
The girl is 10 this year. Two boys. 12 and 14.How old is the girl?
How many kids do you already have?
Juz curious.
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With proper upbringing, I think itβs perfectly fine to adopt that 8yr old girl and treat as yr own. She knows youβre not the real mum but you gave a shelter to her when in need, whether u gave birth to her isnt tat important anymore. Educate her well - u know there are some own flesh n blood mum & daughter walking out of each other as well. It might b fate that u two meet & u like her. U also get lots of good kharma if u adopt & love her. All the best.
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