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    • JenniferJ Offline
      Jennifer
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      AdonciaTang:
      If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love. πŸ˜ƒ

      :udawoman:

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        phtthp
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        Jennifer:
        AdonciaTang:

        If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love. πŸ˜ƒ


        :udawoman:

        That is very noble of you.
        you'll be blessed !

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          Canvas
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          Very happy to read that you have thought/talked through with your dh and have decided to love the girl as your own. I wish you and your new family unit all the best. :snuggles:

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            AdonciaTang
            last edited by

            Thank You everyone!

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              HopeandSorrows
              last edited by

              AdonciaTang:
              If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love. πŸ˜ƒ

              :udawoman: :udawoman: ε₯½δΌŸε€§οΌ

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                AdonciaTang
                last edited by

                HopeandSorrows:
                AdonciaTang:

                If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love. πŸ˜ƒ


                :udawoman: :udawoman: ε₯½δΌŸε€§οΌ

                thank you. now applying to the family court n doing all other procedures, hope she can come and stay w us before CNY πŸ˜ƒ

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                • NebbermindN Offline
                  Nebbermind
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                  How old is the girl?

                  How many kids do you already have?

                  Juz curious. πŸ˜‰

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                    AdonciaTang
                    last edited by

                    Nebbermind:
                    How old is the girl?

                    How many kids do you already have?

                    Juz curious. πŸ˜‰
                    The girl is 10 this year. Two boys. 12 and 14. πŸ˜ƒ

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                      busybee88
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                      With proper upbringing, I think it’s perfectly fine to adopt that 8yr old girl and treat as yr own. She knows you’re not the real mum but you gave a shelter to her when in need, whether u gave birth to her isnt tat important anymore. Educate her well - u know there are some own flesh n blood mum & daughter walking out of each other as well. It might b fate that u two meet & u like her. U also get lots of good kharma if u adopt & love her. All the best.

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                        Imami
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                        Sun_2010:


                        Unconditional love is not so natural. Afterall which parent here can hold a hand on the heart and say, when the DC misbehaved in public or when Dc scored miserably or when the teacher called up to complain, our love did not turn conditional. But, imho, as long as we can do it most of the time and especially when
                        ah, this is so so true.... That's why I say only very young children give unconditional love and not really the parents. Sure, most parents are like the giving tree you know. But, we become the giving tree to them because they are our kids, not because of who they are. Ah, I am not sure if anyone understands me....

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