Club 3 or more Kids

[porcupine12trade]

aims5120:

Hi


Do I have the most number of kids in this forum currently?
....Cos I have 5 kids (aged 12y, 10yr, 5yr, 3yr and 1yr). I'm currently working and also a single parent (daddy departed last year)...
Life is tough but one has to move forward...

Hi

You are a very brave lady, you can do it! You kids are very blessed to have you as their mummy.

[kaka]

Hello! :lovesite:

I have 3 kids - boy 12, girl 10 and girl 7 and have been a SAHM for 2 years. Dh is also working overseas, so \"single parent\" now.
I have a maid to help with the house work so that I can have more time to coach the children with their school work.
I drive a salon car now, it's cheaper than MPV.

[porcupine12trade]

kaka:

Hello! :lovesite:

I have 3 kids - boy 12, girl 10 and girl 7 and have been a SAHM for 2 years. Dh is also working overseas, so \"single parent\" now.
I have a maid to help with the house work so that I can have more time to coach the children with their school work.
I drive a salon car now, it's cheaper than MPV.

Hi kaka

not easy to manage the family alone in singapore. Good thing your kids are older :). Does your dh come back to sin often? My dh travels quite often, everytime he travels, i'll look fwd to his return, sian to face the kids 24/7 heh

[pecalis]

Hi hi,

I'm SAHM with dd1(12), ds(10) and dd(6) with no. 4 on the way. I've just started taking in students this Nov and had to cut down as a result of this unexpected blessing

[porcupine12trade]

pecalis:

Hi hi,

I'm SAHM with dd1(12), ds(10) and dd(6) with no. 4 on the way. I've just started taking in students this Nov and had to cut down as a result of this unexpected blessing

Hi

Are you a tuition teacher?

[24hr-mum]

sometimes i do feel the kids are like a burden when they are so naughty. but what to do? we gave birth to them. hv to be our responsibility. think of the positive side. the times when they are cute n adorable esp if they are healthy kids. if u watch the monday 8pm channel 8 show, u will realise there are parents who are even more poor thing, when they have only 1 child but a deformed or disabled one…

[pecalis]

porcupine12trade:

pecalis:

Hi hi,

I'm SAHM with dd1(12), ds(10) and dd(6) with no. 4 on the way. I've just started taking in students this Nov and had to cut down as a result of this unexpected blessing

Hi

Are you a tuition teacher?

Hi all

My kids are really really getting on my nerves, I feel taken for granted. Its scary, but i feel i m starting to hate them! I tell myself, i shld not let them steal my joy.

I am an ex-tr who resigned to take care of my own kids. Since my eldest just completed her psle this yr, thought I would like to take in students to teach as I believe I can help them improve - I've been tutoring my own nieces all these yrs anyway. I've cut down the lower pri but will see the P5 and P6 thru.

Having stayed at home for yrs, I have to admit tt there are days when I feel taken for granted and get frustrated with them. Just know that there are good days and there are bad days but if there are more bad than good days,we need to take a step back and find out why - maybe mom is too tired, felt not appreciated, need to take time off for self, not enough support from hubby, kids not doing well in sch, kids health, mom's health, in-laws problems, etc.

[kaka]

Hi pocupine21trade


My husband comes back about every quarter, and I visited him 2 times this year - more to have a break for myself and away from kids! I am lucky that my MIL can come over and stay with kids while I was not around. She used to look after my kids when I worked.

I also become really upset at times especially when I was a new SAHM, with their poor attitude, constant complaining etc. When I cannot stand it, I \"hide\" for a while (like go window shopping) and return to begin a new chapter :love: May be you can try if conditions permits :hugs:

[24hr-mum]

or think of it, if u were FTWM, life will be even more stressful, hving to juggle career n family. but of cos, some women will rather seek to escape from kids by working…


when i was a FTWM, i was constantly worryg abt my kids and feeling guilty over not spending time wf them…

[MummyThreeStreams]

porcupine12trade:

My kids are really really getting on my nerves, I feel taken for granted. Its scary, but i feel i m starting to hate them! I tell myself, i shld not let them steal my joy.

Oh it was one of those days for me. DS1 showed me major attitude this whole afternoon. Thank goodness DH was at home. He saw how worked up i was getting so he went to handle DS1. If i had to take him on, I would have surely slapped him!

Kudos to all of you who manage on your own! :celebrate: