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    Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

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      PegMama
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      I told my maid not to talk to my hubby and vice verse unless instruction from hubby directly to her. I am very strict with rules and regulation that I set out for my maid. But sometime I found that my maid like to wash my hubby underwear and treat my hubby very polite and gently 😞

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        bzmum22
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        omgmum:

        Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!
        omgmum,
        why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
        Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

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          omgmum
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          bzmum22:
          omgmum:


          Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

          omgmum,
          why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
          Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

          Because my maid lets my girl wear the weirdest, mismatched clothes out. Considering that she really dresses up, I would have expected her to know a thing or two about colour coordination. My girl wants to choose her own clothes now and the maid will seriously just let her wear prints with floral, and not in a chic, Boho way. :yikes:

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            bzmum22
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            omgmum:
            bzmum22:

            [quote=\"omgmum\"]
            Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

            omgmum,
            why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
            Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

            Because my maid lets my girl wear the weirdest, mismatched clothes out. Considering that she really dresses up, I would have expected her to know a thing or two about colour coordination. My girl wants to choose her own clothes now and the maid will seriously just let her wear prints with floral, and not in a chic, Boho way. :yikes:[/quote]Aiya, you just ask her to change if she dresses your girl weird lor. They will eventually get the message. I dun let my maid change until we all hv changed. No reason why I shld be changing my kids while she takes her own sweet time to dress up lor...who is the Mdm here?
            As for kids, I teach them how to match clothes. If they chooses pieces that clashes, I'll just tell them it doesnt match.

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              PrincessAriel
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              my hubby is superb uncomfortable with a maid around.when I was working, he went to his parent’s place even though it was his off day.

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                nms1
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                omgmum:
                bzmum22:

                [quote=\"omgmum\"]
                Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

                omgmum,
                why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
                Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

                Because my maid lets my girl wear the weirdest, mismatched clothes out. Considering that she really dresses up, I would have expected her to know a thing or two about colour coordination. My girl wants to choose her own clothes now and the maid will seriously just let her wear prints with floral, and not in a chic, Boho way. :yikes:[/quote]My maid can match clothes OK but I prefer to choose for my boys myself so if I want her to help get them ready, I will out their clothes out on the bed then she can get them dressed while I get myself ready.

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                  omgmum
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                  bzmum22, yeah, actually my maid is the mam cos she dares to show face and bang things! Anyway, she’s my ex-maid cos she decided she didn’t want to work for me anymore.


                  I’m the sort who will do things myself just to get them done faster. But I think I must get rid of this bad habit.

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                    b2b3m4
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                    omgmum,

                    I know eaxactly what u mean!!! So in the end i sent all my maids away and went maidless…
                    So, now I am the MDM and the MAID.
                    Sighz…

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                      omgmum
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                      b2b3m4:
                      omgmum,

                      I know eaxactly what u mean!!!! So in the end i sent all my maids away and went maidless....
                      So, now I am the MDM and the MAID.
                      Sighz...............
                      hahahaha!!! I'm also the mdm and the maid now. 🙂

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