No Problem is problem

[Funz]

autumnbronze:

Funz:

Haiz. so many issues to resolve.

Hey Funz,

From your postings, you are one strong and determined babe :ugogirl:

Hang in there ...

All the best :hugs: :hugs:

ps: Not sure if you saw my posting of list of counsellors/life coaches for you in the thread under Health. If you are still looking for one, then its on pg 6

Yup, thanks. DH is currently seeing a counsellor. However, he refuse to tell me how each session goes. I have a feeling that he may go for maybe another 1 or 2 session and then stop completely claiming it does not help. Well I hope to be proven wrong. :xedfingers:

[3Boys]

DesertWind:

3Boys:

I very scared to post in this thread.....

Woa...haa...haa..! 3boys scared to post in KSP? :nailbite:

That must be a first! Surely kuddos to us ladies here! :rahrah:

But don't be intimidated by us here, it does not befits your reputation.

So by all means share your teh-ing skills here - we promise not to put you on the rotary board and hold our darts.

I DARE YOU TO!
:cheeky:

Heh heh, have been busy lah!

Someone mentioned that not all couples react the same way to 'teh-ing' and I can only agree. So yes, different strokes for different folks, and I am only sharing about my current state of relationship between DW and myself, which I think its very good. At the least I light up when I see her, we talk a lot, laugh a lot and like to spend time together, and we are passionate in love. That's all I mean to say, and not meant to be taken as gloating, yah?

How do I dissect this? Its been a evolutionary process, and we didn't always get along so famously, but communication has been key. During some periods of our relationship, she had taken the lead in initiating things, and in some periods in had been myself. This thing about love languages was merely an evolution of the growth in communication. Underlying all that, was the determination that we are in this together for life, and that we are no.2 in each others lives (no.1 being God), and that we would not take each other for granted. So if I were to boil it down, this last point is probably it. The physical side of our relationship is the best its ever been, communications work well and we have a ton of fun.

So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers.

Obviously circumstances are different in different families. In many ways, I have been blessed, but I do not take that for granted either for circumstances can always change.

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....

[duriz]

3Boys:

So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers.


Obviously circumstances are different in different families. In many ways, I have been blessed, but I do not take that for granted either for circumstances can always change.

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....

:celebrate: Congratulations on a successful and rewarding marriage, oh woolly one yessir yessir 3 bags full :celebrate:

No worries, methinks our grasp of English here is pretty good here and we understood you purrrrr-fit-ly.

See I can teh too :rotflmao:

[schweppes]

duriz:

3Boys:

So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers.


Obviously circumstances are different in different families. In many ways, I have been blessed, but I do not take that for granted either for circumstances can always change.

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....

:celebrate: Congratulations on a successful and rewarding marriage, oh woolly one yessir yessir 3 bags full :celebrate:

No worries, methinks our grasp of English here is pretty good here and we understood you purrrrr-fit-ly.

See I can teh too :rotflmao:

duriz, if i may tweak what u wrote, me thinks that as a result of 3boys loving and happy marriage, that's why it's now, \"oh woolly one, yessir yessir 3 boys full\"

We see the light in what u are writing, 3boys. Thanks for sharing

[autumnbronze]

3Boys:

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....

3boys,

Read, noted and understood-ded

BTW, where many tend to obfuscate, you on the other hand, have clarified

Many thanks for sharing.

[autumnbronze]

Duriz and Schweppes,


You two are hilarious :lol: :lol:

[DesertWind]

3Boys:

...we would not take each other for granted. So if I were to boil it down, this last point is probably it. The physical side of our relationship is the best its ever been, communications work well and we have a ton of fun. So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers. 'obfuscated'.....

Wow, so envious! Thanks for sharing, 3boys!
:celebrate:

'obfuscated'...wah piang ooi first time I came across this word...shalom!
:salute:

[3Boys]

DesertWind:

Wow, so envious! Thanks for sharing, 3boys!
:celebrate:

Haiz, no need to be envious.......I'm sure you all have wonderful relationships with your other halves too. If you all felt strongly enough to get hitched and have children together, then there is enough of a base to get a great relationship going, just needs some work and compromise....

[kiddo]

3Boys:

DesertWind:

Wow, so envious! Thanks for sharing, 3boys!
:celebrate:

Haiz, no need to be envious.......I'm sure you all have wonderful relationships with your other halves too. If you all felt strongly enough to get hitched and have children together, then there is enough of a base to get a great relationship going, just needs some work and compromise....

Wah 3 boys u can man ....... :udaman:


duriz, if i may tweak what u wrote, me thinks that as a result of 3boys loving and happy marriage, that's why it's now, \"oh woolly one, yessir yessir 3 boys full\"

schweppes ...... :hi5: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: