which school is this ?

[RRMummy]

duriz:

Disclaimer first: my posts have nothing to do with Cookie Monsters'. I understand where you're coming from. These are JMHO.


To add on.

EVEN if the victim did seduce the perpetrator, she is still a child. The adult involved should know better. No matter how enticing the situation. That is the basic difference between children and adults: maturity, decency, the know-how plus the sheer will and strength to say no and turn away.

Children at one time or another will tempt fate and attempt anything (including dangerous situations) at their fancy.

Most adults will exercise self control, those who don't will be incarcerated, else we will live in a chaotic society.

Noted dear. No worries, I believe everyone is entitled to their own opinions My comments are also not directly aimed at cookie monsters' either.. Just that I'm not good with words, and some of you have phrased my thoughts in written form much better than I could myself..

As a FTWM (with many many years to go) with 2 DDs, I shudder to think what is out there.. for me, the one public place I expect (now, hope) to be the safest for the child would be the school. Maybe it is a very 'childish' expectation but of all the people in the world, the last person (besides family) i would imagine to betray me and my child's trust is the teacher. That's why we think by keeping them in a better school, of spend more time in school with activities/ CCA especially if no one is home would keep them safe.. geez... this world that they are growing up in is so scary...

EVEN if they were really in love, did they need to go physical and on 2 occasions? If it is truly in the name of LOVE, by all means guide her, give her the care and concern but for haveans sake please abstain till she is older... After all he is 10 years older, he is suppose to have the maturity. The adult in particular THE TEACHER is expected to know better..

For me, sorry, no matter whichever justification, I see no excuse for the teacher's action.. :x :x

[duriz]

RRMummy:

Noted dear. No worries, I believe everyone is entitled to their own opinions My comments are also not directly aimed at cookie monsters' either.. Just that I'm not good with words, and some of you have phrased my thoughts in written form much better than I could myself..

I think you're great at expressing yourself

RRMummy:

As a FTWM (with many many years to go) with 2 DDs, I shudder to think what is out there.. for me, the one public place I expect (now, hope) to be the safest for the child would be the school. Maybe it is a very 'childish' expectation but of all the people in the world, the last person (besides family) i would imagine to betray me and my child's trust is the teacher. That's why we think by keeping them in a better school, of spend more time in school with activities/ CCA especially if no one is home would keep them safe.. geez... this world that they are growing up in is so scary...

I feel the same with my DD

[RRMummy]

duriz:

I think you're great at expressing yourself

awww... u always so sweet :hugs:

Duriz:

RRMummy:

As a FTWM (with many many years to go) with 2 DDs, I shudder to think what is out there.. for me, the one public place I expect (now, hope) to be the safest for the child would be the school. Maybe it is a very 'childish' expectation but of all the people in the world, the last person (besides family) i would imagine to betray me and my child's trust is the teacher. That's why we think by keeping them in a better school, of spend more time in school with activities/ CCA especially if no one is home would keep them safe.. geez... this world that they are growing up in is so scary...

I feel the same with my DD

hey, :offtopic: but are you going SAHM soon? The guilt of being a FTWM is no fun at all...

[duriz]

RRMummy:

hey, :offtopic: but are you going SAHM soon? The guilt of being a FTWM is no fun at all...

Yes.
In 10 days I shall be
I know what you mean.
Today DD cried for me (again) in the morning when she woke up.
Almost every morning, she sees momma not next to her, she will kick up a fuss.
And when I get home, she will \"koala\" me.
I will be her \"tree\" throughout our dinner, shower, bedtime stories and singing, and then off to dreamland.

:love:

[Blobbi]

duriz:

Yes.
In 10 days I shall be
I know what you mean.
Today DD cried for me (again) in the morning when she woke up.
Almost every morning, she sees momma not next to her, she will kick up a fuss.
And when I get home, she will \"koala\" me.
I will be her \"tree\" throughout our dinner, shower, bedtime stories and singing, and then off to dreamland.

:love:

Sorry, skimming the thread and havent read every post (imagine me with cyber wings cos I'm a-flyin thru the threads). But wow, congratulations! What a momentous decision! I've been on and off the fence about working until I fell off completely (as in lost interest in work :lol:) . Hoping the boss will let me quit by yr end.

Anyway, you will love your new job as full time tree and koala-hugger. :love:

[duriz]

:offtopic:

Blobbi:

Hoping the boss will let me quit by yr end.
Anyway, you will love your new job as full time tree and koala-hugger. :love:

Yay for you and me :dancing:

[hapydino]

:offtopic:


duriz!

u gonna be a sahm?

wow!!

congrats and sure your DD is the most happy person at this decision..

i'm contemplating this path too but it is a big step to me.. so i'm counting down too.. to 12 more days i will be on a 3 weeks break to 'trial run'..

[duriz]

hapydino:

:offtopic:


duriz!

u gonna be a sahm?

wow!!

congrats and sure your DD is the most happy person at this decision..

i'm contemplating this path too but it is a big step to me.. so i'm counting down too.. to 12 more days i will be on a 3 weeks break to 'trial run'..

Enjoy your \"trial run\".
Being SAHM is not the easiest job.
But for me, it's the most satisfying

Better :siam: before mods catch me, so much OT

[RRMummy]

duriz:

RRMummy:

hey, :offtopic: but are you going SAHM soon? The guilt of being a FTWM is no fun at all...

Yes.
In 10 days I shall be
I know what you mean.
Today DD cried for me (again) in the morning when she woke up.
Almost every morning, she sees momma not next to her, she will kick up a fuss.
And when I get home, she will \"koala\" me.
I will be her \"tree\" throughout our dinner, shower, bedtime stories and singing, and then off to dreamland.

:love:

:congrats: duriz!!! So happy for ya!! :boogie: :dancing: :imcool:

i know what you, mean!! I also have 2 koalas at home.. both clinging on different hours.. luckily mine are both small size, otherwise this tree go \"timber\" already!!

But we are so happy to be trees aren't we!! :love: :love:

geez.. really OT here alot.. must get mods to split the threads liao

[RRMummy]

Blobbi:

Sorry, skimming the thread and havent read every post (imagine me with cyber wings cos I'm a-flyin thru the threads). But wow, congratulations! What a momentous decision! I've been on and off the fence about working until I fell off completely (as in lost interest in work :lol:) . Hoping the boss will let me quit by yr end.


Anyway, you will love your new job as full time tree and koala-hugger. :love:

keeping this for you too.. :congrats: cyper-flying blobbi!!

Hope you will get your Xmas wish soon!!

:celebrate: