DesertWind, i agree with you that at least, my son is close to his ah-ma rather than a maid. Previously when i just started going back to work, i only bring him home on Friday nights and will bring him back to my MIL's on Monday mornings. Thou i visit him every night after work, everytime i leave my MIL's place, my heart feels very heavy & guilty.
It's been 3 weeks since i've returned to work but i miss him more and more. So yesterday & today, i brought my son home, thou i'll need to carry him on my own and take bus to my MIL's at 6.30am. But i think my MIL is secretly relieved ah, because my son is not easy
BUT, i also feel abit guilty dragging my son here and there in the wee hours of the morning. My Fridays-Sundays are totally devoted to my son ah. Really hope my son will prefer me instead of his ah-ma because he is now the love of my life!
Luvkid, must be super hectic, fetching him everyday after work! At night also cannot rest...My son cries alot and his cries peaked when he was 8 weeks old. So i extended my maternity leave for another 2 weeks because i saw my MIL getting so impatient with him, keep shaking him harder and harder. Now that my son doesn't cry so much, she feels less stressed now. Thou i appreciate her willingness to help (she offered to take care of my son during weekday nights as well because she knows i have to take a bus to her place), i cannot help but feel bu fang xin after witnessing her shake my son.
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RE: Club FTWM
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RE: Pat's Schoolhouse
myWQ:
I'm considering Pat's, and realised they take quite some time to reply to my emails. When I called, I didn't even get to speak to the Principal. Are they so popular that they don't have time to entertain new enquires?
Hmmm. A lady called me the very next day after i sent them an email. She also emailed me pretty detailed information about their timetable, extra programmes and the fees. After that, another lady called on the same day to arrange a time with me for viewing their centre. But the centre i've emailed is the one at Arena, not sure about other centres. Am viewing the place tomorrow... -
RE: PCF/PAP Kindergartens
SPIES, i'm talking about childcare. Opps, pardon me, didn't occur to me that the fees are applicable to kindergarten *blur* I saw on the government website that PCF Ayer Rajah takes in children 18 months and above but did not come across any reviews or comments on this branch. So i'm looking at the wrong place since this thread is about PCF kindergarten? Sigh~
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RE: Club FTWM
Me, another FTWM reporting here! My son is 12 weeks+ old. Now actively looking around for a suitable childcare centre for him. I cannot say i want to be a SAHM because i do enjoy going to work as i have pretty ok colleagues. But i also miss my son alot and wonder if i could have done more for him if i can afford to stay at home. My MIL resigned the moment i delivered so now, she is the main caregiver. Very worried that my son will not be close to me…
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RE: Learning Vision
I’ve emailed the centre at Biopolis to make an appointment to view the place but it seems like the principal is on leave. Am wondering if LV allows trial lessons? Intially, i contacted the centre at MOE then realised it’s only for MOE staff. So the principal suggested Biopolis…
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RE: Pat's Schoolhouse
I'll be viewing the one at Arena soon as i live at the Jurong West extension area. After reading all the comments here, i'm now worried :slapshead: Will feedback here when i'm done viewing the place. The fees are really very expensive so my expectations are higher too.
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RE: PCF/PAP Kindergartens
Hi people, am new here! Now looking for a childcare centre for my boy and after surfing around, saw this PCF Ayer Rajah. Seems like they can take in 18month old kids. Any parents have kids at this branch? Fees is $590 with GST excluding subsidy. I thought most PCFs charge around $150. Would appreciate any advice! Actually, i still cannot decide whether to send my boy to a mainstream or a montessori centre. Both have their pros and cons and i’m trying to keep an open mind here…
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RE: Club Wild Wild West (From Bukit Merah to Tuas)
Hello, am a first-time mum living at Jurong West
Now anxiously looking around for a suitable childcare for my boy!
01.westmom (Jurong East)
Girl (1997)
02.buds
Girl (Jun 2001) and Girl (Oct 2003)
03.schellen (Bt Batok)
Girl (Jan 2002) & Girl (Dec 2009)
04.addoil
Boy (Jan 2005) & Boy (Dec 2006)
05.jedamum (Bt Batok)
Boy (Aug 2002) & Boy (Nov 2006)
06.shylyn (Jurong)
07.MLR (Taman Jurong)
Boy (Sep 06)
08.weifang314 (Bt Batok)
Boy (Feb 2005) & Girl (May 2008)
09.luanee (Clementi)
Girl (Jul 2002) & Girl (Jul 07) (same day!)
10.aggellim (Bukit Batok Central)
Boy (July 1998), Boy (Oct 2001) & Girl (May 2006)
11.caroline3sg (Choa Chu Kang)
Girl (11+) & Boy (7)
12.emelyn (Bt Batok)
Boy (May 1999), Boy (Dec 2001) & Girl (May 2004)
13.tamarind (Jurong)
Girl (2003) & Boy(2004)
14.picolo (Bt Batok)
Boy (2001), Boy (2002) & Boy (2005)
15.csc
16.vividlaurel
(Sep 2003 twins)
17.snowz (Jurong West)
(P5), (P3) & (K2)
18.icyclaw (Gombak)
19.hot_opp (Jurong West)
Girl (May 2001) & Boy (May 2002)
20.ksmama
21.fxchow (Taman Jurong)
Girl (12) & Girl (10) & Boy (5)
22.ctcc (Jurong)
Boy (2002) & Boy (2004)
23.Poohbear (Dover)
Girl (2004) & Girl (2005)
24.EN (Jurong East)
Girl (1999) & Boy (Jun 2001)
25.Leoleo18 (West Coast)
Boy
26.Bowie (Teban Garden)
Girl (Dec 2006)
27.cammy (Jurong East)
Boy (2003) & Boy (2008)
28.sandratbl (Jurong East)
Girl (10) & Boy (7)
29.aash2422 (Jurong West)
Boy (12), Boy (11) & Boy (9)
30.JHJC from the west
Girl (4), Twin Boys (19mths)
31.Luvkid (Jurong West)
Boy (Jul 2002) & Boy (Feb 2006)
32.SGMoms (Jurong East)
33.ysy (Bt Timah)
Boy (Oct 2004), Boy (Sept 2006) & Girl (2009 - Coming soon!)
34.mummyjoyce (Bt Timah)
Girl (Apr 1997) & Girl (May 1998)
35.favianboy
36. Kiasu_pig (Bukit Batok East)
Boy (2007) & Boy (2009)
37. Jennifer (Bt Panjang)
Boy (Mar 97) & Boy (Sep 01)
38. moomoo2 (Bukit Batok West)
Boy (2007) & Boy (2009)
39.Shurley197323 ( Jurong West)
Girl (2000) & Boy (2003)
40. tsh0202 (Yew Tee)
Boy(1999), Boy(2001), Girl(2004), Girl(2005),
Boy(2007) & Boy(2009)
41. Tranquility8706 (Chao Chu Kang)
Girl (2000)
42. IJJ (Bt Batok)
Girl (2001), Girl (2006), Peanut(2009)
43. Yerdua (Jurong West)
Boy (2003), Girl (2008)
44. Oneheart (CCK)
Boy(2004) Girl (2006)
45. busybee (Jurong)
Boy (2001) & Boy (2004)
46. UmmuMuadz (Teban Gardens)
Boy (2003), Boy (2006)
47. buds hubs
Girl (Jun 2001) and Girl (Oct 2003)
48. PlayfulFairy (Hillview)
Girl (2003) & Girl (2008)
49. Pocky (Teban)
Boy (2008)
50.Lookingforsale (Yew Tee)
Girl (2007)
51. hokkienmee (Bukit Panjang)
Girl (May 2009)
52. Elaine74 (Bukit Panjang)
Girl (Oct 2004)
53. Mrsbongz (Choa Chu Kang)
54. shumingp (Holland)
Boy (Feb 2009)
55. Christmas (Choa Chu Kang)
56. sunny
57. FMz (Bukit Batok)
58. Andaiz (bt timah)
Girl (Dec 2002)Girl (Nov 2004) Girl (June 2006)
59. Jav (Hillview)
Boy (Jan 2005) Girl (Apr 2007)
60. NdHelpParent (Choa Chu Kang)
Boy (Jan 1995) Girl (Jun 1997)
61. AnalectsReader (Bukit Batok)
Girl (April 2005)
62. shuting28 (Bukit Timah)
2 girls (2003 & 2006) Boy (2005)
63. Lock (Jurong East)
Girl (Sept 2001) & Boy (Oct 2003)
64.N3SKiasu (Bukit Batok)
Girl (Jan 1997) & Boy (Jan 1999)
65. cluelessmom (CCK)
Girl (10)
66. Busymom (Bukit Timah)
Girl (2004) and Boy (2007)
67. Honeybeel (Yew Tee)
2 Girls (2003 & 2007)
68. Mama Windy (Clementi)
Girl (Jan 2003) & Boy (Jan 2005)
69. muffyvan
Boy (May 2000) & Girl (July 2002)
70. JGMum (Pasir Panjang)
Boy (Jul 2005), Boy (Feb 2007) & Girl (May 2009)
71. Ang Joanne (Choa Chu Kang)
Girl (7 yrs) + Boy (10 mths)
72. Chocco (Choa Chu Kang)
Boy (July 2005)
73. ksfaith (Choa Chu kang)
Boy (Aug 1998),Girl (May 2001), Girl (Mar 2006),___________ ( )
74. superblurmum (Queenstown)
Girl (Dec 2007), Girl (Nov 2008)
75. Puff (Jurong East)
Girl (Jun 2006)
76. Pita (Bt Timah)
Boy (Apr 1999)
77. bobianah (Bt Panjang)
Girl (Dec 2006) & Girl (Aug 2008)
78. yogibabe a.k.a. regina (Jurong East)
Boy (Nov 2004)
79. chipndale (CCK)
Girl (2004) & Girl (2007)
80. Joybliss (Jurong East)
Boy (2008)
81. preciousjam (Bt Panjang)
Girl (2007), Boy (2005) & Boy (2003)
82. baby2momma (Yew Tee)
Boy (2003), Girl (2008)
83. Baby Chong (Yew Tee)
Boy (Aug 2004)
84. glamchic (Jurong East)
Girl (Feb 2008)
85. dearzen (Bt Panjang)
*Pssst... dearzen, you need to
update your profile. Your kids'
age are reflected as 10 Oct 1009!*
86. hmsg
Girl (Sept 2001) & Boy (July 2004)
87. Sparks88 (Bt Panjang)
Boy (May 2008)
88. Uh-Oh (Bt Batok)
Boy (Oct 2007) & Boy (Jun 2009)
89. Mum_2Gals (Jurong West)
Girl (Jan 2004) & Girl (Jan 2006)
90. bigeye (Choa Chu Kang)
Boy (2003) & Girl (2007)
91. Saralee (Bt Timah)
Girl (Mar 2000), Girl (May 2004) & Boy (Jan 2008)
92. ksunflower (Choa Chu Kang)
Boy (May 2005)
93. peapot (Bukit Panjang)
Girl (August 2003)
94. mo4 (Choa Chu Kang)
Girl (Oct 1998), Girl (Jul 2001), Boy (Aug 2004) & Boy (2007)
95. cheery_kx (Bt Batok)
Boy (Nov 2005) & Girl (2007)
96. jolsh (Bt Batok)
Girl (Sep 2006) & Boy (March 2008)
97. softmatsg (Jurong West)
Girl (April 2001) & Girl (Jan 2003)
98. KopiYing (Jln Rumah Tinggi)
Boy (March 2008) & Girl (Feb 2010)
99. zp1503 (Telok Blangah Crescent)
Boy (Feb 2008)
100. raynreg (Redhill)
(Girl 2003) (Boy 2008)
101. yewteemum (Yew Tee)
Girls (Oct 2004, Jul 2007, Jan 2010)
102. ikeike (Telok Blangah)
Girl (Dec 2008)
103. blur_elmo (Telok Blangah Drive)
104. sharon1234 (Clementi)
Girl (Aug 2002)
105. lh
Girl (Jun 2009)
106. Zack
Boys (Sep 03, Mar 09)
107. sunset_dae (Bt Panjang)
Boy (2007)
*Psst, sunset_dae.... mebbe you can update your profile?*
108. mummy of 3 (Teban Gardens)
Girl (Oct 05), Girl (April 07), Boy (April 09)
109. staypositive (bt batok)
Boy (2003) and Baby No. 2 (July 2010)
110. Muffins (Bt Timah)
Student
111. kelly1 (Bukit Timah)
1 Girl (December 1994) & 1 Boy (Nov 1997)
112. Keroppi30 (Bukit Panjang)
2 Gals (April 2000 & May 2007)
113. sparkie0209 (Central S'pore)
Girl (September 2008)
114.mama79 (Bukit Batok)
Girl (May 2005) and Boy (March 2007)
115. sssdarlings (Ghim Moh)
Girl (1999), Boy (2003) and Boy (2005)
116. Yen715 (Yew Tee)
1st son (1997) & 2nd son (2006)
117. blueoctopuzz (Bukit Batok)
Girl (Dec 1997) and Boy (June 1999)
118. soda (Bukit Batok/Hillview)
Boy (Jan 1997) and Girl (Jan 1999)
119. celtricia (Bukit Batok)
Boy (10 Nov 2005), Girl (12 Jun 2007) & Girl (4 Feb 2009)
120. carmen21 (Jurong West)
Girl (1999)
121. pixy (Bukit Timah)
Girl (November 2008)
122. mummyo (Clementi)
3 boys : 2005, 2007 & 2009
123. Chirunner (Bukit Timah)
3 boys : June 1996, Aug 1997 & Sept 1998
124. Daddy rr1975
Boy (June 2009)
125. nicnat (Choa Chu Kang)
2 girls (2004 & 2006) and 1 boy (2009)
126. MioPio
127. orangeme (Clementi)
October 2003
128. lovekidsverymuch (Jurong West)
Boy (Dec 2004) & Boy (Oct 2008)
129. Student : quickmind
Boy
130. puffgal
Girl
131. leoboy (CCK) - i am a Dad
Girl (Jan 2004) & Boy (Aug 2006)
132. thrice
Girl (2001) Girl (2003) Boy (2005)
133. chiclil (Bukit Batok/ Hillview)
Girl (2002) Boy (2006)
134. icylemon (Jurong East) - mummy
2 Girls (2006) & (2008)
135. busy mummy (Bt Timah)
2 Boys (13 August 2005 & 8 Aug 2008)
136. Babychong
137. sharon_c (Jurong East)
Girl (National Day 2001)
138. ter_wen (Jurong West)
Boy (2004) Ger (2006)
139. Victorious (Queenstown)
Boy (2000)
140. Butterwaffles (Jurong West)
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RE: Cherie Hearts
Denbel, i'm visiting the centre too this coming weekend. Where else have you shortlisted? I'll be visiting the one at Chervons as well. Need a centre that's located along the way from my home to my workplace because it is quite impossible for me to reach my home by 7pm! I've spoken to Andy as well and he did sound very nice. Did he mention if we can have trial classes?
I'll certainly be dropping by again on a weekday to observe how the teachers interact with the children...