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Hi,I really hope you overcome your feelings, I hope it doesn’t tie you down. I hope you don’t get upset because your feelings can get too far off from what is natural. Be strong, your child will grow up and eventually understand. You are already doing your best, love yourself more, give yourself credit for what you are already doing.

sunlight7:Best to settle everything before going to bed.I am in fear of cold war, its so awkward and chilly, its no fun for everyone - the parents and the kid(s). :hugs:When all else fails, give each other a hug, you will be surprise how the physical contact can dissipate the tension bottled up inside.Cold war that last too long will become contempt and that is hard to reverse and very bad for the relationship.

Hi, I want to add in some more resources which I have seen in my years as a social worker.Counselling and Care centrehttp://www.counsel.org.sg/If you are looking for a family service centre near your home, you can go tohttp://www.ncss.gov.sg/social_service/family_services.asphere is a list of helplines.http://www.ncss.org.sg/documents/LIST%20OF%20HELPLINES.pdf

natgoh:Hi, any one here is a weekend parents? Do you often hear alot of criticism saying that you are not a good parent? And do people doubt your ability to care for your child and don't think it is possible to have bond with your child?I am not a weekend parent. But I do know of parents who were not weekend parents and they didn't care for their children well too. I believe what is important is that we have brought up our children well with the right values, manners and proper behavior. Respect for people and other people's feeling and property are high on my value chain, and One do not need to be a full time parent to do these.It pains me to see children (as well as parents) who are very self-centered and thinks the world owes them a living. Parents who allow their young charge to do anything as they please and do not know how to discipline them. If you (not referring to the thread starter here) are a weekend parent and you allow these to happen then yes, you have answered your own question.

Jennifer:Thank you for providing the website.I casually browsed through the testimonial and chanced upon some sentences in #5 that are 100% same as what you wrote in your first post. What a coincidence.For the convenience of other ksp members, I copied the section and pasted here:True to his word, by following his advice, I was rewarded with numerous benefits, like my daughter who starting to excel in her studies. As a matter of fact, she began participating in school activities and contests, getting awards as well!This testimonial is written by a Christine Lee from Bukit Timah. I think she and you are different persons, simply becos you are now happily married whereas she is a single mom.Just wonder whether these are advertisements posted by Master Lo to generate more businesses?

Oh yes, little bro will be wide awake :rotflmao: How to talk? Brains melted already.

TheAnswer:Last year, my brother literally stayed at home for 9 months. Now thankfully he got a job. He is also more cheerful now. He is now trying to save up more money. He used up quite a bit of his savings last year.Good to hear that your brother is okay now!

vinegar:TheAnswer:Cannot talk him out of it? Luckily mine has stopped telling me that he wants to quit.actually,i am in dilemma.If he quits his job,he could help me to run errands n teach the kiddo,so i could focus in hsework n cooking.But he'll bring me prob ...MIL consistent calls...Now I've used to enjoying peace n quiet.Imagine his phone keeps ringing non stop.He has to go outside of the hse to answer the phone while teaching the children.He doesn't wanna MIL knows he has quit.Why? My MIL will make him run 100x errands until he has no time for himself.Being a filial son,he doesn't know how to reject n MIL is those super thick skinned n inconsiderate type.he has valid reason to quit.we r planning for migration n there r lots of procedures to do.Planning to migrate where?

Yes, of course, he is just a baby. How I wish we can have good relationship forever.